cookiemonster23

I made a Google survey about people into AB/DL! I didn't wanna just post a poll on here, as it wouldn't gather much information if it was limited to this site. Feel free to take it! https://forms.gle/JthXMwCqUHty8qw38

I'll say 3 1/2. 2 of my ex-boyfriends knew I was into ABDL, as I told each of them while we were dating. I told a few of my ex-friends about it before the friendships ended, I came out to some of my current friends about it, and my mom knows about it by accident. I currently can't remember the last time I told anyone that I like ABDL. It's been at least 3 years. I actually considered coming out to a very close friend about it, just a few months ago. We were in the middle of a text conversation when this happened. However, I stopped myself. My instincts said not to. Moments later, he said that it's "weird as shit" to pretend to be a child. I was glad that I decided against coming out to him. I plan to come out to anybody new for a long, long time. It depends heavily on the person, and the kind of people in their life. I'm very lucky to have some accepting people in my life. But obviously, not everybody has that.

My parents were divorced when I was a baby, and I've had a single mom since I can remember. I only ever saw my biological father 1-3 times a year. We never knew each other well, and suffice to say, we had a very distant relationship when I was a child and a teenager. At the time of writing this, we aren't in any contact and have not seen each other in person in 4 years. My mom and I have a very difficult, and downright abusive relationship.

I DID fall into a toxic relationship, though. However, I appreciate the kind words.

You're correct in that communication is important. However, in my situation, it's for the best that my mom and I don't discuss it. My mom isn't like your aunts. She's not a good source of advice, and there's not much trust between us. I'm glad you're happy! That's what is most important, right? I've had a similar problem! I'm not aromantic or asexual, but I prefer to keep sex and all things related to it strictly separate from ABDL. For me, ABDL is about receiving the love, comfort, and security that I've lacked from the very beginning. Yet, most people seem to want to sexualize it in one way or another. I hate it. Other people can make it sexual in THEIR personal lives if they so choose, but I don't want that.

My mom knows that I do ABDL. She discovered it by accident when I was a teenager, and was surprisingly accepting about it. However, we never talk about it. I have some friends who know of it, and are comfortable discussing it. I've had ABDL friends before. I never got to meet any of them in person (they were all online). Sadly, I'm also not speaking to any of them anymore, due to a natural loss of contact. I'm glad to still have people in my life who know and are accepting. But sadly, I don't currently have anyone I could do it with in person. I've never done ABDL with anyone in real life, only alone. One day, I hope to change that. I'm glad you found someone better and more loving to live with, and I'm glad that you found a happy relationship! I wish you and your bf the best!

I have some updates on this situation. 1. Jeff and I did not end up meeting in early 2020, like we planned. He had some financial troubles, and found that he could no longer afford it. We couldn't make later plans due to COVID. We often talked of meeting up after the quarantine ended, but it never happened. 2. Jeff and I broke up. To make a long story short, he just became increasingly cold and distant towards me. I tried to talk to him about this on numerous occasions. Each time, he'd say that he was going to do nothing about it. Then, he'd make an empty promise that it'd get better in some unknown point in the future. Of course, it never did. So, I broke it off with him and then cut all contact. There's more to the story, SO much more. There was lying, manipulation, gaslighting, and more. It was a highly abusive relationship. But, that's a story for another time. TLDR: This post is rather bittersweet for me now, as Jeff is long gone.

"she doesn't make it clear why you deserve it" Excuse me, what? I DIDN'T deserve it. No child deserves to be hit.

They both are! I, personally, prefer to suck my pacifier. It’s more comfortable.

He's more than tolerant. He's into it!

Thank you! I'm so happy to have found him!

Thank you! I heard that autistic people make up a big part of this community, or at least the diaper aspect, and I wanted to verify that!

As some of you may remember, I asked my last bf to baby me, and he said no. We're broken up now(for unrelated reasons), and I got a new bf. We'll call him Jeff. Jeff told me that he was into littles, but wouldn't want one that played as a baby rather than a child. Because of this, I didn't tell him I was into that until about a month into the relationship. When I came out, Jeff surprised me. He said that he was, in fact, into ABDL. He said he told me he wasn't because he's very picky about who he does it with(he prefers to only do it with people he has a real bond with), and it was easier at the time to just say he wasn't into it. I was shocked, but regardless, I was really happy. Jeff and I are long distance, so he hasn't gotten a chance to baby me in person yet. We'll be meeting early next year, so we'll see how that goes. However, he's done it plenty of times online, and so far, I've loved it. Since this all happened, my outlook on it has changed a lot. In the past, I only went into littlespace to temporarily eliminate the urge to do so. Now, I do it simply because it's fun! I also do it way more often. I didn't think I'd find a daddy so soon. I'm so happy to have not only found one, but to have found a daddy AND a boyfriend in one person!

I wear them less often in the summer, as the added heat isn’t good.

Just a poll I made out of curiosity.