Orchidectomy

Different causation, same diaper routine I guess. Nothing much has altered here since my last post except that my wetting has become even less controlled than before. Whereas a couple of years ago I would sometimes, when diapered, choose to wet myself, now I'm pretty much unaware until the disposable needs changing. I remain of the opinion that there is a psychological aspect to this, brought about by surgery, and I also remain committed to wearing the heaviest plastic pants that I can obtain.

Nhiusd : No, I only pooped unconventionally on that number of occasions.

Did anybody else keep count in 2018? Here's my tally: Pees: Number of nights wet: 91. Wettest night-time (tape-fastened slip under towelling pants under plastic pants) diaper: 2547 ml. Number of days wet: 24, almost all when "out and about". Wettest daytime (pull-up pants under towelling pants under plastic pants) diaper: 1543 ml. Poos: Soiled diaper or pants: 77 times during the year. Of which, 3 times when "out and about". Potty used 126 times.

Well this is a turn-up! Thank you for drawing our attention to your product. Do you have a website giving details of price, delivery and so on? Does it answer other questions, such as the detail of the bowl and how it withdraws from the frame? If the bowl is removed whilst the chair is occupied, can an enema or suppository then be administered to the restrained occupant? What is the finish (varnished marine ply?) and is it splash-proof? Are the straps on the external faces of the sides intended to prevent the occupant from touching themselves to alleviate boredom whilst strapped in for extended sessions, or is the splashguard alone sufficient to prevent self-arousal? Is the splashguard unisex or gender-specific?....

Given that your play gender is female, you might care to explore the suggestion that chastity cages cause penises to shrink. After all, LGs age 3-4 don't have big Willies/Dinkies/convenient wee-wee tubes, do they? Has anybody here actually experienced such shrinkage?

That sounds fine at first, Rusty, but what about those who do not have regular daily bowel movements? Especially in places where a large proportion of the diet is high-starch rice, many only poop every other day. Your method of counting would, I suggest, never see them exceeding 1. Might it not be fairer to keep a tally of the number of consecutive days not using either an adult toilet or a potty? This would negate the old childhood trick of 'holding on' - using bowel movement as a way to prove independence from one's carer. Well, independence unless the standard "parental" response is a suppository or an enema!

Can anybody advise whether there is a standardised way of counting the number of consecutive days when AB has soiled their diaper and/or pooped their pants? Maybe at first sight a silly question, but how do you tally this?: Three consecutive days with pooped pants, followed by one day constipated, followed by four consecutive days with a soiled diaper. Is that one "run" of three plus one "run" of four, or one run of seven, or one run of eight? Or what? And what if AB poops more than once in a 24-hour day? In the example, assume that neither a grown-up's toilet nor a potty was used over the same eight-day period. I'm presently keeping records, but I curious to know what you think about analysing the results. (And yes, there is a pun on "anal" hiding in there!)

There is, I suggest, a purely practical aspect linking diapering and enforced chastity. If one is, for whatever reason, in a chastity belt, what do you do if the keyholder isn't around and you are desperate for the toilet? Diapering has to come into the mix somewhere, so why not make the diapering itself the way of enforcing chastity? The question then becomes "What's the best way of achieving that?".

That certainly applies to me. A desire to be in diapers isn't, IMO, a sexual desire but something else. What else I'm unable to explain.

Oh dear! An ambiguity on my part, it seems. Perhaps I should have said "According to medical literature cited on the OAB page of Wikipedia..." It was that academic paper I had in mind, not the layman's paraphrase.

Being aware of "wanting to go" every 5 to 10 minutes certainy qualifies for wearing diapers 24/7! Many here might say "Lucky you!". Doing a little wee-wee in their pants, several times per hour, is their ideal. As for the cause in your case being OAB (Overactive Bladder), that's a definite maybe. According to the literature (referenced from the OAB page of Wikipedia), more than 40% of people with overactive bladder have incontinence. About 40% to 70% of urinary incontinence is due to overactive bladder. The relationship between the two is poorly understood; you cannot properly attribute causation here. It is possible to create the symptoms you describe by drinking Barley Water in place of other non-alcoholic drinks. Just beware that many commercial concentrates contain aspartame, an artificial sweetener not universally accepted as without allergy problems. For me personally, aspartame is a migraine trigger, so I cannot go down that route. My recommendation would be to accept the need to wear high-uptake diapers (8-drip rating) , topped with both towelling and plastic pants to deal with any little leaks from the disposable. Assuming you pass the usual 2000 to 3000ml per 24 hours, you should then need to change typically 3 times per day. No need to be on a permanent hunt for the next WC, just let it come in your diaper - day or night, at home or out-&-about. If we are in the realms of real-world rather than AB Play, you should also get medical checks of both Prostate and Bladder, especially if the condition has developed since puberty rather than having a history indicative of a lifelong problem.

Even the cheapest disposable diaper eventually copes with one bladder-full if it has time to soak up your wee-wee. My advice is to wear a disposable next to the skin, topped off with double gusset towelling pants and then a pair of really heavy gauge plastic pants. At worst you will end up with a temporary lake in the crotch whilst the cheap-but-slow nappy does its soak-up job. Thus no embarrassing leaks in public. (You are, I trust, going to wear diapers when out and about, not just around the home?) As regards regression, my advice (for what it is worth) is to concentrate on suppressing your bowel control. What's right for one person in this regard isn't right for all, though. I combined anal dilation, a stimulant laxative and a bulk-forming laxative. You've truly arrived once you regularly have no awareness of defacation until you sense that warm, slightly moist feeling in your crotch.

Hello "DLSafrica", I have to take issue with your assertion that baby boys aren't supposed to get erections. I reckon they do, even in the womb. Google the three words boy/masturbate/womb for evidence. After birth, a boy's erections are not always obvious. Except at bathtime and during changes, any evidence is hidden most of the time by diapering, isn't it? The answer to your question about erection-preventing chastity devices is 'yes', and what's more these are compatible with being ABDL-diapered at the same time. As it is a bit off-topic I'll detail my response in a Private Message - always assuming I can remember how to do that! Regards - Orchidectomy

I did indeed mean diaper absorbancy. This is much easier to do in metric units than the American system of Fluid Ounces. Pee being near enough a density of 1, it follows that one millilitre of pee weighs one gram. One litre weighs one kilogram, and so on. Don't forget to subtract the weight of the dry diaper from the weight of the wet one; only then do you get the true figure for uptake.

Belated best wishes from me too. I don't get to log in every day; I didn't mean to ignore you.. In my case, involvement with diapering is not totally a matter of choice; for me a degree of diapering is a necessity. But I do sometimes wet voluntarily, especially daytime. My advice is to build up your daytime use gradually, so that when you wet in public you are confident about your diaper coping with the amount of wee you are releasing. It may well be the case that there is more room for diapers under nominally female clothing (skirts and dresses) than under unisex garments (joggers, track suits and so on). Could you be persuaded to run a few experiments in this regard? By experimenting with different types of diaper and weighing the uptake at the point where the first leaks occur, it should be possible to determine whether cross-dressing opens up diapering opportunities not available to males who persist with a more conventional wardrobe as 'top layer'.