Thankfully it seems that I am just in a very stressfull time of life, dropping from 1.5 income family to single income hurts a bit and the last 6 months have been nuts with work, hopefully things start to taper off a bit.
Funny you should post this now heh, i have been looking around at different pad & pant systems and really wanted to give it a go since sometimes i need protection while other times i dont and these are much easier to change than any other system in my opinion.
This is still something I am working on getting over myself. I am always worried about people seeing but it is true that nobody really notices anything as they are so busy with thier own lives.