I spent about a year needing a wheelchair after my accident, and then off and on for the next year after that...I wore pullups virtually that whole time, largely because I kept having accidents where I didn't get to the bathroom in time and I hated winding up in a puddle....pullups were a good stop for that.......the only ones who noticed, were a couple of my girlfriends who'd come to the bathroom with me and noticed one time I hadn't made it because they saw me throwing the wet one away after getting changed...since they knew about the accident that put me in the wheelchair in the first place, they were very supportive about it....