first off congratulations on your achievement.
I have a couple diaper recommendations as for trest they are very good and hold a lot also little for big offers a good diaper. the northshore brand tends to fit too big on me.
with me having urge, stress, overflow and oab i will be following along with you progress.
I would look into getting Protec briefs for nighttime, they are like shorts with a leak proof outer shell and absorbent inside.