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Was the sample discreet? Puns and all aside. The big purple box on the site is looooud.

Chef/cook in a fancy joint

Attends youth briefs.

IMO seeking out a woman based solely on some dimension of sexual attraction that she may or may not appreciate is a recipe for failure. You would be more successful being happy if you either looked for other fetishists on diaperspace or actually tried to find a compatible woman who you think has the same appetite for sexual hijinx you also have. If I was incontinent and the only reason someone was interested in me was because of that, I would not respond well AT ALL. It would be insulting and hurtful.

It might help if you told us what exactly was making you so apprehensive? A relative or significant other finding out? Fear of being seen in public with a diaper exposed? Honestly the best advice I can try and offer you is don't worry about what strangers think, they won't remember for more than a day at the most. If you are talking about wetting and relaxing, don't try and force it. Try out wearing, see if you find it enjoyable. Get comfortable with them. When you think you can handle it, just make sure you have drank a good bit of water before hand. Soda or caffeine drinks work well too, since they make you urinate. I hope you find someone on the site to try out your new hobby with. Best Wishes.

It is very strange that the state that produces Attends doesn't have very many retailers.