palmd84

It sure has become a lot easier to source great diapers in Canada these days. Not long ago you couldn't even find a domestic supplier of Abena and you'd have to pay a hefty fee to import. The best on the market were Attends and later Tranquillity. Boy has that changed, there are now multiple reputable online retailers engaged in intense competition and prices have come down while selection has increased.

Thanks for sharing your experiences, turns out it didn't happen last night; I woke up briefly for it. But it's kind of strange how it happens some nights but not others. To be honest I wouldn't mind if my mind signalled that wetting the bed while wearing a diaper was OK, but I certainly wouldn't want it to happen when not wearing a diaper. I don't wear 24-7, just at night, but I suppose that's reason enough for me to perhaps have at least a couple dry diaperless nights per week to ensure it doesn't happen when for whatever reason I don't wear to bed.

I wear a diaper to bed most nights now, partly for the comfort/security and partly because I've had some major sleeping issues, waking up to go to the bathroom frequently and not being able to sleep afterwards. I've got into the habit of not getting up and just wetting my diaper while laying on the bed instead if I need to pee in the middle of the night; it seems to have helped. But one thing I've noticed is that I'm waking up as much as several times a week now with a wet diaper and no recollection of having wet it. This is particular true for comfortable familiar diapers like Molicare Super Plus, but happens with others too.

The Wellness Superios are is one of the worst diapers I've ever tried. Maybe the they give out samples are of higher quality than the ones you get in the bags, because I've had nothing but bad experiences with these.

I frequently buy products from agecomfort.com and was pretty impressed to see them list themselves as "ABDL" friendly; this was impressive because I'm not aware of any other mainstream diaper distributors that make such a claim. Well those days are over, it appears sometime in the past few months the site was updated and any references to the ABDL community were removed.

Anyone know where you can order these in Canada?

I've been pretty impressed with them in my past orders. Hopefully they keep it up because I haven't found a better price in Canada and they ship out fairly quickly.

Agecomfort has worked well for me. The return address appears as "CRAFTEX INDUSTRY INC". So far I haven't been able to find cheaper prices for Abena/Molicare/Tranquility in Canada with shipping included.

Yep, when I was somewhere around 4~5 years old I remember being diapered by my cousin before bed at my grandparents house. She was only 4 years older than me so I must have thought it was so unusual that it left a lasting impression. It's strange because I have plenty of memories before that age when I must have been wearing diapers but don't actually remember the diapers. I also remember my brother who's 2 years younger than me finished potty training before me so I must have been a pretty late. But I don't really remember wearing diapers after that either. That memory stuck with me throughout my childhood and I somewhat suspect it resulted in me becoming a DL.

There's not much in Nanaimo, but if you're willing to take the 1.5 hour drive down the Victoria I know you can get some better stuff at the Shoppers Drugmart Home Health Care or Rexall Home Health Care. Not sure what they currently have in stock but Shoppers Home Health Care has always had Tranquility ATN in stock when I've been there.

Aside from often being bad for the economy there's a pretty good health reason for blocking counterfiets. Even as it is you still get lead toys and toxic dog food/toothpaste working its way through the cracks. Counterfieters usually can't be tracked back to their original source and thus have no accountability for the damage they may cause so no incentive to follow a safe manufacturing process. I can't imagine the sort of stuff that would make it through if there was no customs. Diapers may not seem like a big deal and for the most part they probably aren't, but they certainly can be exposed to toxic materials in the manufacturing and during transit. They have a natural tendancy to absorb substances so I wouldn't take my chances. Now copyright enforcement that's a totally different issue...

From BC, but on the Island not the Okanagan. I know of a few on the Island but I've only met another DL once. These days I'm too busy for much of anything.

Thanks leafy kille, I'll probably pass on the lille then. So far I'm very impressed with the Abena and Molicare I ended up getting. It sounds like Wellness is made in Turkey but I haven't heard much about them. It's tough to get information on a lot of these companies and I suspect some manufacture in several different locations; though I'd imagine that, if they have manufacturing locations outside of China, the products being imported here are most likely from those locations.

I came clean to my wife about 3 years ago shortly after we got married when we started living together. We had a complex distance relationship going for long periods of time prior to that, only living together for 2-3 month of each year, which made it difficult to bring it up earlier because I just figured I'd be able to repress the urge to wear for those times. In retrospect I definitely should have told her earlier. When we got married I figured I could completely repress it, I now accept that it's pretty much hard-wired into my brain and I doubt I'll ever be able to get away from it. Anyway, only a month after moving in permanently together I know I had to tell her, but couldn't quite find the right opportunity. Finally, one night she asked me how to spell "diaper" (she was taking ESL at the time), it kind of stunned because it came out of nowhere and I figured that would be the night. Later, that night in bed I told her I had something embarrassing to tell her but wasn't quite sure how to say it. I danced around it for awhile before finally spilling it all out. When I finished she just laughed and said she was expecting something far worse (infidelity), but she didn't have any problem with diapers. The next morning we went out to the door and bought some together; she kept reassuring me because I get pretty self-conscious buying. She even put one on me and tried one on herself, though she hasn't really worn since because she thinks they get too hot (she has really sensitive skin). She doesn't usually put them on me anymore, which is ok by me, but she's completely accepting and even said she thinks I look kind of cute wearing a diaper. I definitely consider myself lucky in those regards. In fact, she was the one who suggested I post here after she saw me reading over some of the other posts. As bad as it can be to see a relationship end due something like this, I think it would be much worse to live your whole life repressing ab/dl-ism not even knowing if your partner might be completely accepting of it.

Just an update, I ended up getting Molicare Super Plus and Abena X Plus. I was unable to find anything good produced in North America that I couldn't already get locally. What I found: Molicare Super Plus "made in france" Abena X Plus "made in denmark" I was tempted to go for Bambino, but all the information I could find on them points to "made in China" and I can't really bring myself to support that, as much as I'd like to support a company that produces specifically for the abdl community. I found a local Attends supplier, and I'd still like to try dry 24/7 and Lille supreme fit. I tried Tena Super before but I wasn't a big fan of the clothy material they all seem to have gone with and they ended up leaking on me.

Thanks for the info guys. It's turned out to be a lot more difficult than I thought to track down country of origin, but I plan together as thorough a list as possible before I buy online.

I've decide to try ordering diapers online to tap into a far greater number of choices than available locally, but I have some reservations. My greatest being that it is impossible to determine where they are being made. With all the economic turmoil lately I'm trying to go out of my way to support North American manufacturing, and avoid Chinese-made products whenever possible (their beggar-thy-neighbour trade practices coupled with corporate greed/consumer-indifference have destroyed numerous domestic manufacturers around the world). There are also environmental/quality-health worries/ethical/etc issues that I won't bother going into. Anyway, I was wondering if anyone has made a comprehensive of list of where different popular diapers are actually made. I'd particularly like to know what's made in North America so I can give them priority, and what's made in China so I can cut it from my list. If choices are too limited I'd probably go for a good European diaper. Usually country of origin is supposed to be labelled on the packaging, for anyone interested. Sometimes companies sneak around it with "distributed by". What I've found so far: Goodnites: "made in usa" Depend: formerly "made in usa" now "made in mexico" Tranquility ATN: "made in usa" I'd appreciate any help in building this list (Abena?/Bambino?/Molicare?/Attends?/... etc) Thanks, palm

Thanks for all the support everyone. It really does feel great; before this I'd been worrying for over 3 years (the start of our relationship). It sucks having such a big secret from someone you are so close too. I finally feel like I can really move forward with my life, especially having just graduated from university. Cheers

Sorry I haven't posted here for awhile, so most of you probably don't remember me. A few months ago I mentioned I was going to start living with my wife permanently but was worried she might find out I'm a DL. Anyways after about a month of living together I finally told my wife that I like to wear diapers. After a day of walking through drug stores (often in the diaper aisle) looking for some cream that apparently we can't find in North America then later that day she asked me how to spell 'diaper' (me noticeable uncomfortable at the time) I finally came to my senses, thinking it would be silly to continue like this, and told her everything. I struggled to tell her at first but finally got over my embarrassment and she was totally open about it. Of course she laughed a lot but asked me if I had any (which I didn't) so we drove to the drug store the next day to pick up a bag of diapers and she even tried them on herself and offered to diaper me. Since then she's been totally ok with me wearing and often laughs and tells me I look like a kid when I wear around her (she's even told me I should find some 'cuter' diapers than Depend cuz she'd like that). So anyways I've come to the realization that I may never change and since the only major hurdle to my wearing (fear of my wife finding out) has been removed I no longer feel the need to push away my DL side. I believe it's also strengthened our marriage and brought us even closer together.

Well 4 months have passed since I last posted here and I'm now living with my wife but still haven't told her about being a DL nor have I engaged in any DL activities. Although it was uncomfortable for me when we were standing in the adult diaper aisle looking for a special cleansing soap that couldn't be found in any of the other aisles. I'm still not sure how or when to break it to her but I guess waiting longer might not be a good idea either. Any ideas on how to break this thing or how to keep it a secret or how to lose the fetish?

I doubt anyone else around here knows I'm a DL as I'm incredible secretive about it and just don't take risks. However, if someone did find out I wouldn't be surprised if they kept quiet about it; particularly a parent. It's kind of like the other night when me and my wife were having sex thinking everyone was asleep then my mom came downstairs to get the dog. I'm positive she heard us and was expecting some awkwardness the next day but she was completely silent about it. It kind of ruined the moment hearing here walk right by because we were both pretty embarrassed as silly as that might sound. A lot of people don't want to make a big thing out of uncomfortable subjects; it's as embarrassing for them to bring it up as it is for you to react.

Hehe, I've always preferred the cute girl to the hot girl. Everyone says we make a good couple; both tall, thin and quiet. Anyways this will probably be my last post for the next two months, my course load has become too heavy to afford me time for anything but eating, sleeping, and studying. Thanks for all the advice everyone, I'm feeling much more confidence to tell me wife about this. I'm sure I'll be back with last minute doubts in a few months but for now I can rest easy. Ciao

HaHa, almost but think South-East Asian. She's tall, thin and beautiful but very self-conscious. All her friends thought she should go into modeling but she's sticking with her education and I really respect her for that.