Apemantus

Whilst your sentiments are spot on, the actions of the boys you speak show they are unlikely to pay any heed to them. I am a respectful male, and I find most of the men into diapers/wetting/pooing to be scary! They come across as intense, as fanatical and as self-obsessed. We all have strong feelings about our fetishes/way of life, no doubt, but some men (and it is nearly all men, the women who seem similar are men in disguise, I feel) feel they have the right to be like bulls in a china shop. The true shame of their behaviour is it makes the ABDL community very reticent to engage with each other on a deep and meaningful level. Thus, despite our fetish feeling very unwanted by the mainstream, we cannot find succour in each other. I am sad that opportunities to explore our common humanity are ruined by the actions of some very selfish and ignorant individuals. They do their hearts desires no favours by acting in such a way.

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