Once a time ago I dated a girl who loved me and I loved her. I loved her so much I told her about my diapers and I remember at the time she said she loved that part about me. As time and space built, our relationship collapsed inward. Things got messy( no pun intended lol)
long story short: we don’t date but we have an unhealthy tendency to reach out to eachother, it always ends up in argueing. This time she said she wouldn’t want to be with me because of diapers and she wouldn’t want to wear all the time and because I always bring them up when we talk sexually... we also aren’t in love with eachother. We love but aren’t in love.
That hurt me a lot because she was my first girlfriend to accept that and indulge and even like it at a point.
Its interesting that when a girl loves you and you’re in the beginning phase there is almost like an open canvas opportunity and she is more willing because she loves you.
Today made me realize too that the next relationship I’m in has to be with an abdl/dL or a woman that accepts me and my diapers. I cannot be with a woman who won’t love me and my diapers.