I have chatted to my gf about this before and her reply about most women not liking this and cross dressing etc their opinions are forced upon them by society / friends etc.
She however knows i get stressed easily and when i wear diapers or womens clothes i relax and become submissive ( no not that far - but say far enough for me to let her watch what she wants on tv).
Also her other point is that i am very unlikely to be unfaithful to her when i say goodbye in the morning, considering im wearing a nappy under my jeans ! She knows i wouldnt let another woman open my jeans to find im wearing a disposable nappy and sometimes womens underwear / tights .
So i can see her point.
She doesnt really get involved in changing me etc, but has sometimes done this for me. But she can be strange, sometimes if i wet or mess nappy she will ask me to change imediately and other times she will tell me not to change till the morning.......like i said she can be strange, but i just do what she wants and keep her happy when she has a request regarding my nappies. After all i must respect her for respecting my ideas.
She also says its no worse than her wearing a big pad once a month.
So she may not get turned on by it herself , but she lives with it the same as some women put on schoolgirl outfits and maids outfits and stockings etc for their partners.
She says this way she doesnt need to bother with all that !
After all its only a fetish, and not doing any harm to anyone.
However, over last few weeks its getting more than a fetish when im 24/7.
EDIT: Just found the following on another thread which sums up the way my gf feels......
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Seeing men in diapers does nothing for me either and I've never looked at the photo site on here or anywhere else. I'm not even remotely interested in seeing them in any type of underwear.
However, a beaming smile on the face of someone I care for, reflecting his happiness at being comfortably and securely diapered.............now that's another matter
Dolly
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