Alec

Now that they are available in the United States, I use Tena Slip Maxi. I am unable to use the restroom whenever I need to due to the nature of my job. When it is time to change, there are multiple private locking bathrooms available. I carry a bag with diapers and wipes into the bathroom. After two years, nobody has said a thing about my bag. I roll up the used wet diaper, tape it to itself, wrap it in a paper towel or two then toss it in the trash. Prior to Tena, I used Abena M4, Secure X Plus, and Eurobrief.

I carry a bag with diapers, powder, wipes and my iPad to work which I keep stored in my locker. When I need to change, I grab the bag, find a free restroom, and change (standing up against a wall). I toss the wet diaper into the garbage pail and make sure used paper towels cover the diaper. Lucky for me, there are several private restrooms where I work so I don't have to worry about anyone eavesdropping so to speak. I suppose I have changed at work several hundred times during the last year since I've started wearing 24/7. Since I often work long shifts, I change 2 to 4 times a workday. More often than not, I run into coworkers in the hallway on my way to a restroom. Nobody yet has asked me about my bag. As far as I am aware, nobody knows I am in diapers. For me I guess it has become a stress-free event.

I reached 2 months today of 24/7. I have to say that it has been easier than I expected. My biggest fear was being confronted on a daily basis about my new enhanced rear end complete with crinkly sound effects. I have found that people are wrapped up in their own lives -- they do not budget much time to investigate if any of their friends/colleagues/family are secretly wearing diapers So far so good -- and lots of fun!

When I am diapering for the night, I do it laying down. When I plan to be up and about, I do it standing up. I seem to have fewer leaks that way.

1) keep tight control of your glucose 2) order one bag of abena x-plus from xpmedical at a time. 3) see if you can get a permanent locker at the fitness center and store your diapers/briefs in the locker. Take a few in a gym bag to your room every few days. 4) wear black or dark navy track pants to bed - they will hide noise, leaks, and bulk. 5) after you become better friends with your roommate and feel you can tell him, just store everything under your bed. Hope this helps.

It's time I finally posted something -- how about an intro? I've enjoyed reading this site for a few years now, but I'm pretty shy and have been reluctant to post. My name is Alec -- I live in San Francisco with my bf and I'm a DL. I'm not new to this -- I've been wearing diapers on the sly since I was 5 years old! I've been caught several times -- life goes on. My bf, ex-bfs, and several of my friends know I'm into this and all are supportive. I'm always open to making new DL friends so send me a message if you want to chat.