I have dealt with the same type of doctors and urologists over the past 18 years, only mine are through the Tricare Prime (Military Retiree's/Active Duty Dependants) and through the Navy Hospitals. The Tricare Network's own handbook when discussing incontinence speaks in one chapter of all the incontinence products for controlling incontinence available today in the stores (such as Depends, Tena, Attends, etc,) and all the others available on the internet. Yet every doctor or urologist confronts me on why I am wearing a diaper instead of trying different prescriptions that are available today...I always ask them the biq question first..."Have you read my medical record Doc?" The answer is always NO! I always ask next, "Why Not?" That is what it's there for. When they finally do start to get around to the why's and wherefore's and whatnot's they all say the same thing. If Tricare would OK the treatment we could possibly fix the problem. Therein lies the problem...You Joe, are a RETIREE! The Navy's answer to the retiree today is to "Medicate Them Until They Die" approach. Or "Doctors who want the pay and noriety (sp?...fame) of being a doctor but all they want to do is practice Phamacology, (again I can't spell). My next appointment is tomorrow aboard the base near here and even though not what I am going for (I am being see for L-5 and L-4 ruptured vertebra) I will be again in the everyday diaper and the questions will begin anew!