babykeiff

I was born incontinent, like us all but was diagnosed at age eight to have limited control. I am bladder incontinent. I have some control when this is within primary/secondary focus. When I change focus, I loose this. If I relax, I also loose bowel control. I have worn since I was eight. Prior to this, accidents were blamed on laziness.

Since my work takes me to different sites, diapers are a must. I used to wear pull-ups (easier to hide, and fit easily into a laptop bag, also less noisy.), but not only did I find them incapable, changing into a new one involved stripping. The Tena Flex used to work for me, but Tena changed the design and outer to be 'cloth like' = leaks like a sieve. I currently wear the Tena Slip 'Active Fit' maxi diapers. Since most times I wear a suit, diapers are hidden by the length of the suit jacket.

From searching for solutions, I found several AB sites. Reading further into the regressive lifestyle, I realized that I had been doing this for years - ie I still have, and adore, my Bear from birth and at stressful times, I will cuddle up in a ball with a bottle and a blankie.