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  1. Long time ago in the Army Cadet Corps (UK) when at camp we were told that if it was likely to happen (a condition related to the beer we smuggled in) just to use a waterproof cape or groundsheet on the bunk - that way the sergeants would know, but turn a blind eye because technically the bed wasn't wet.
  2. Like Eugene I am an older guy and have been both a child and now adult bed wetter. Came out of diapers as a kid with a time when there were lapses for a few years, then pretty dry until about 45 when lapses started again. Have now been diapered nightly for over 15 years and don't think much about "enjoying" or "hating" it - just live with it and manage htings sa well as possible which is pretty easy except the nights I poop. As a kid if I woke up wet and needed to go I would just lie there and let it happen. As a adult I have to say old habits die hard!
  3. Tena slip maxi at night, boxer briefs and a tee shirt over that as easier to launder than pajamas if there is any seepage, and the briefs hold things in place well. Preference is for cloth, but domestic situation makes it very difficult to manage washing and drying unobtrusively.
  4. Time does make things easier. When i was young there was a lot of stigma about bed wetting and visits to clinics labelled "Bed wetting nurse" were not comfortable -nor was having your sheets and pajamas hung on the washing line in full view of the neighbours every time you went in your sleep. My mun brought most of the family's clothes from a store and used to get a "special offer" of pajamas with one jacket and two sets of pants for what was euphemistically called "boys with nighttime issues". Not much fun when you are 13 having the shop assistant ask mum "do you still want the special pajamas for him?. when you are standing there. Getting older my girlfriend (later wife) discovered I had wet my pants a little one evening when we were on her mums sofa. She was very understanding and said it didn't surprise her because she had brothers. This led to the conversation turning to bed-wetting and we both admitted to having past problems and an understanding that maybe for both of us the past might recur sometimes. We didn't protect the first mattress we had and after a year or so there were stains her side and my side. (OK to be honest more my side) and we replaced it with a new one and a plastic cover. We found it was not too much bother to put the sheets in the washer/dryer in the morning and it was very clear that our parents anxiety about bed/pants wetting was largely based on the amount of work our mothers had to undertake to wash and iron extra bedding and night clothes without the conveniences we take for granted today. Like other I am an old guy and while continence is expected, people understand it isn't guaranteed!
  5. Woke up wet - as usual and a little pissed (in the other sense of the word) because my good quality night time diaper had leaked leaving a wet spot about 6 inches across on the sheet. To be fair I had voided a lot and the diaper sagged when I got up. But had I been in one of my cheaper daytime diapers I would have probably had a lot more laundry to do. Using two diapers can help but best advice seems to be to slit the backing of the inner one so pee can flow through.
  6. My reply should have been "mostly dry". I wear pretty well 24/7 and change into a heavier "night time" diaper before going to bed. I am not able to control myself even for a short time if the need to pee strikes. If was just freshly diapered and about to get into bed I used to try to untape the nappy and use the toilet. This was often futile and on on some occasions rather messy. Now I take the view a diaper is a diaper and don't even try not to let go.
  7. Thought my night time diaper was going to cope....but was wrong and a 6 inch wet spot on the sheet. Bother!!!
  8. Me too. Was regularly wet in bed as a boy, but it got better later on. Was OK for a few months after I got married but then one night I flooded the bed and this happened irregularly for many years. Daytime wetting accidents started again when I was in my late 50's and eventually I had to start wearing nappies again. We decided it was better to get a good nights sleep and use a diaper than to try to keep waking up by setting alarms etc.
  9. There are some medical conditions that can lead to both kinds of incontinence - I think the ones where nerve function id affected are most likely to affect you this way.
  10. Absolutely right - I don't "remind" adolescent or adult family members to go to the toilet and they need to keep off my territory - I have to manage this damned incontinence thing. Diapers are expensive and it makes sense not to use them carelessly.
  11. I think I know where you are coming from. My diaper does not worry me - but I like to be "normal" and go without protection around the house whenever I can - sometimes I end up with damp underwear - but sometimes I have a major flood - often just as I get to the bathroom and cause a puddle- all the extra washing is a bind, but I still try to be dry and get a real buzz when I have no need to change my underwear or jeans for a few hours.
  12. For a lot of my life I have had wetting problems, but managed without diapers -the times when I have had to live life in wet underwear with damp patches showing on my jeans etc were too numerous to be funny. I now wear almost all the time, but try to use a toilet whenever I possibly can and if at home will sometimes try to last for an hour or two in ordinary underwear. All this is an attempt to cope and try to recover what most people would regard as normality. But it isn't any more normal to have constantly wet briefs or to have to change your pants 3 times a day let alone the danger of really big accidents that others have recognised. I don't want to get worse but I don't have problems about being addicted to diapers as I really do try to avoid going in them if at all possible. One of the advantages is that I don't have to try to hold on to bladder or bowel contents to the point where it hurts like hell - I won't stop trying to keep control- but if it gets too desperate I will let go - whereas in ordinary underwear I would hold on until the bitter end - and then usually lose the battle and be very wet or messy. Diapers are a convenience and enable me to be much less stressed so that I can be relaxed and enjoy myself more - I can also have an nights sleep uninterrupted by having to set the alarm every 3 hours so as to get up and pee in the hope of keeping the bed dry. (another area of failure as often as not) So I don't think Diapers are addictive - they are like medicinal drugs - useful but with some negative side effects.
  13. I hope you don't have too much to worry about - I don't think a stone will be likely to lead to incontinence - but do know how worrying the symptoms you describe can be - hope you feel better soon.
  14. I don't think wearing diapers mean that I am more likely to be wet - in the daytime i try to get to a toilet if I can - but have such a short time between "needing to go" and starting to pee that I often don't make it.. After years of being "caught short" and ending up with wet pants I had to do something and as medication isn't helping much it had to be diapers. What diapers are for me is a way of life that is socially acceptable, prevents people from seeing me wet and takes a great big load off my mind. At night I can sleep without having the radio or an alarm clock set to wake me in the hopes that I get to the toilet in time to save the bed from a soaking - again it was a painful decision to "give in" and use protection, but one that has allowed me to get a good nights sleep - frankly I don't mind if my pee is in me or in my nappy - just so long as it isn't in the bed! And yes there is a comfort zone and a feeling of regression to early life when I was pampered and looked after - even when wet - but that like the positive sensation of feeling the diaper close to your skin is a minor factor compared to the sense of well being associated with not being worried sick in case someone notices a big wet patch or draws the right conclusion from seeing 4 or more pairs of underwear drying on the line every day.
  15. I am "Dribbler" because I used to object to being called "the wetter in the family" but never quite managed to be totally dry all the time and spent most of my life in partly wet underwear. So the name seems appropriate and sometimes I don't even have to explain why!
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