ModdyMoon

I am not sure if that's what I'd run into myself. I got a cheap one from eBay or something. I didn't really expect it to be something that worked out. It's cheap, it's not really what I wanted, but it was the style I was looking for. So I figured I'd get it, and see how it would work. It's maybe "slightly" smaller than ideal around the waist, but I'm not sure if the bigger size (if it existed) would be too big... But the thighs... Not even really close...

I know that things are certainly a scam, but want to see how they work out. I do hope that it is something that ends up being an entertaining thing. Though I *doubt* it's going to actually ever be anything "date" like in any real sense.

I hope that this situation has quieted down. That's several months ago. I've dealt with scammers elsewhere, and "sketchy" but not clearly scam stuff on the, "sister site". But nothing here. Any vaguely not cool stuff I've seen? Well it's taken a, "hey I'm not cool with this," and that is that. Ie. how things should be. Thanks everyone involved with keeping this site really quite pleasant. Even when I'm a big grump.

Where are you where they say that it's not legal to spank your kid. I *know* there may be some places where that is true, and I have no idea where you're at (I believe I've asked several times, I certainly have meant to). https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_corporal_punishment_laws Since you didn't have the 15 seconds to do that, there I've done it for you. Looking to see if there's any evidence that *anyone* has been arrested for spanking their own children, I can find exactly zero reports of such. I have *one* report of someone arrested for "spanking their neighbour's child". You've stated repeatedly that you don't want to participate, and I'm not forcing you to. You have made it very clear that you have *zero* interest in doing the research to see if you're actually basing your argument on actual facts, or just speaking from some hearsay that is ~35-40 years old (and is less likely to have been true at that time, than it is now). You state you, "haven't kept up on details..." because "your child is 40..." I have zero children, I'm 50 myself. The main reason I take the time to look into this sort of thing, is because people making statements like you have, that seem very much to fall into, "that sounds like a reactionary response to something that has little to no support in facts." You have presented no evidence to support your argument, you have not refuted (made a counter argument) anything that I have said. I have asked repeatedly questions to help understand your argument. You've called me, "a computer," and "likely abusive." I have done my best to inform you of what I know (which is barely the tip of the iceberg of knowledge on the topic you claim to have reason to state that I know nothing about). As for, "You are saying that all kids can be told just be nice and they will" I have made *zero* arguments to that effect, I have disputed, and presented arguments contrary to what you have said. You have made mere asersions of "how things are" which I've demonstrated to be "not how things are." "you sound like some of the people that never had kids or they were Very Very lucky to have an excellent kid," I'm not making any argument about what I would do, so this is an irrelevant argument, to the person, rather than any argument which addresses what has been stated. I have been responding to your argument. And your stated, "factual basis" for your argument. I've asked for references, which you've refused to provide. I guess I want to ask something really important right now. Are you interested at all in whether or not what you are saying is true? (I don't like the term true, because what I am talking about is basically three things, a basis in facts, the validity of the premises from those facts, and the soundness of the argument from those premises, truth isn't really a fair term) If you are interested in the "truth" of what you are arguing, why are you refusing to provide any support for what you're saying? If you're not interested in the truth of what you're saying, then what is your purpose here? I have to say, I have no care whether you respond or not. If you decide *not* to further it, that's fair. If you do, again that's fair. It's amazing how it's "my fault" that you got involved with this. To quote you: Yeah, I did some "harm" to you, by you responding to someone responding to me... Why is it that you who were raised right, can't take personal responsibility? I was 10 when your child was born. So it's not because you've not lived as long as me, and are "just a kid".

You're talking about how you would go about using punishment. My question was about what you see has been taken away in this situation, which you'd like to see reinstituted. What isn't possible to do, which you feel should be. I'm not talking about what might be considered unacceptable by people who have looked at the research, to find there is very little evidence to suggest there's a positive result that comes from using punishment as a form of operant conditioning. Even whether operant conditioning is a useful way of bringing change with a relationship (especially caregiver/child). Where's your evidence for the claims that, "Now a days you don't even have to spank your kid, if you make threats of any punishment , all the kid has to do is call the police and you are in jail" because I have seen (and have gone looking) for cases where parents have faced consequences for behaviour as mild as you *claim* (spanking a child, not just threatening to). Maybe, the CPS/police will come and "check out the situation," but you're stating clearly that you, "are in jail," for "threatening to punish" a child. Where's your evidence. You are making things up, about how you can't "do anything these days," as best I can tell. Maybe you are caught in some silo where this is the predominant world view, and being able to see the factual basis, is unimportant. You say that you don't have the resources that I have. What resources do you think I have that you are lacking, and if possible what would it take for you to "get them." If you believe that "jail never hurt anyone," I'm not sure where you're getting this belief from. Also, if you believe that, then what's so wrong with a child who you have threatened to punish, having you sent to jail? Are you making claims about some part of the world I literally am unable to know, because my language skills are lacking? I'm not asking you to provide answers "to every parent." I'm asking you to explain what your basis for your outrage is.

No idea whether I can work with this, but I'm interested in seeing if I can.

I asked, and you've not answered... What is banned that you'd like to reinstitute? What *specifically*?

You're welcome.

"You sound like an abusive adult" This is said by someone who is willing to hit a child. Thinks that children *deserve* to be hit. That sounds like a lot of projecting. Especially when it's to someone who has said, "Please don't hit children". "You don't want to do things to hurt children, that's abuse." is a fair translation of that. Really? Which doesn't prove that people who are spanked, are no more likely to be abusive. Interestingly... "I was hit as a child, and I feel it's a good thing to hit children," despite the actual research that shows this is very much harmful, shows that you *are* likely to be abusive. Where's your evidence for your claim. Have there been studies done? Are these studies using sound methodology? Or are you using news reports as your evidence? I mean, everything you're saying here is just like hypethetical, which probably is almost certainly disputed by the very data that you're *refusing* to look at. It's good that you think that I'm the abusive adult here. Not the person who wishes to force people to be put in a harmful situation, yourself. Good to know that you know facts and logic so well.

I think it's probably more reasonable, but it's just not something I can figure out right now. I got a cheap Chinese one... And it's really terrible. It gives me some idea that I would actually very much like it (even though I say the one I got is pretty much entirely useless in terms of practical use). The diapers themselves seem to be somewhat reasonably priced. Probably for what I would be willing to order wouldn't be too bad. Not sure how the shipping ends up working out, because I didn't check it out. Honestly would probably be happier ordering from Japan than the United States.

I don't really do this regularly, but I do sometimes, due to wearing cloth, and sometimes having an accident. What I will do, is get as much of the poo in the toilet, then rinse it out as fully as I can. One thing is you can get disposable diaper liners, so that they can be dealt with somewhat like a disposable diaper, but only a portion of your protection.

Hey, welcome. Hope this is a good time for you...

Welcome, I hope you have a good time here. I hope you don't have to pretend to be a grown-up too much...

I'm really jealous. I wish I could have a fairy for a friend. Or someone who puts on my tiara and kisses me on the cheek. Maybe I don't have that because I have a silly idea about what I am. I could just pout and see if that fixes anything.

I have in the past, and I'd like to get back into doing it. But I just am not managing much of anything of that sort.