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Has anyone tried using marshmallows as a suppository? Apparently it works really well, with no cramping, just makes you not able to hold it in. Read about this over on adisc (where they have a 17page thread about it) and alot of people say its really good. What you do is freeze the marshmallows (they don't get that cold, just firmer) shove them up "there" with some lube or water, and sit back and wait :X. Going to try it out in a bit, got some cooling in the freezer now :S.

I started wearing diapers 24/7, almost 4 years ago with the objective to become incontinent. I tried various ways to shortcut like stents, foley caths (last one involved UTI and antibiotics). Then I resorted to drinking a lot, staying relaxed at all times which looking in the rear mirror was hard to do. In fact I believe I wasn't that successful at it. Nevertheless I made some progress, but not even close to what I wanted. So now marks the day, where I'll restart my journey, greatly inspired by Felix among others. Instead ofninly focusing on the long term objective, incontinence and bedwetting. I've decided to split it my endgoal into what I consider more realistic short term goals. First goal. Wet in my diaper, at least once every hour. Once that has been achieved, second goal will be wet my diaper once every half hour. I known I have triggers which somehow impacts my bladder and makes it spasm so I get the urgent feeling of needing to pee, like focusing on my cellphone, reading emails and such, so naturally I'll use that to begin with, simply to reinforce. But I need to find other triggers as well. Goal one should be achievable, within one month, though doesnit take longer, then so be it. Second goal will be harder, but I hope that by accomplishing first goal, second one should be doable. Also given the fact that, I'm not starting entirely from scratch. My hope is that once I have accomplished my second objective, that my bladder has shrunk considerably, meaning I can begin focusing on bedwetting. I'll update once a month, or when I feel there is enough progress, to share. Sendt fra min BTV-W09 med Tapatalk

Welcome on board Lottie. I'm rereading HP myself just now (in French this time!), & hoping for HP socks for my birthday. Accio socks!

Consider the medically incontinent fathers out there- are they any less good at that simply because they wear diapers? Of course not And if your increased happiness is having a positive effect here that should tell you something too It is good and wise that you are thinking about these things at this point where there is still a chance of changing your course Just know that with every serious decision you will make in life there will always be some doubt, and this is normal. Without that doubt we'd rush headlong into things and find ourself in trouble more often than not Use that doubt in a positive way- once you've thought your decision through and moved toward your goals cast the doubt aside and know that you've made a good decision because you once had doubt. Don't let it keep pestering you and keep dragging you down Something my Therapist taught me is that I'm no good for anyone else if I'm not good for me. I need to be OK first, then I can do good for other people like I want to If I'm not good then I really will not have any good to give, or at least not as much good to give as I'm capable of giving You can't do your best unless you are at your best, and if it takes being incontinent to make you your best then that is the path you need to be taking. It's not the best path for everyone but it is for some of us. I still have doubts that I want my own level of incontinence to increase- things are great for me right now without the bedwetting I originally thought I wanted. My own approach is simple acceptance of whatever happens being what is good for me I'm not going to fight anything because it was that fight to stay dry which was causing my problems. I'm happier now that I'm not fighting anything, and since I'm always diapered then nothing can hurt me anymore Maybe you should consider a similar approach and just let your heart and subconscious mind take you wherever it is that you need to go as you simply ride along. It works for me! Bettypooh

I'm definitely in the same boat honestly lmao

I would debate that when I wear my loading diapers onesie,if they can't figure out what's happening when it's spelled out across my chest ,they are dumber than trump. Sent from my SM-T810 using Tapatalk

A few years ago I was buying a box of wipes and a bag of Depend. The clerk was making small talk and asked how old my baby was. I pointed to the Depends and said they were both for me. She got a little embarrassed. This was in contrast to my early days in diapers where I got mortally embarrassed by the girl holding up my purchase and shouting to the next register "Is there tax on these?" Or the time that I was picking up some adult cloth diapers from Sears catalog order (they used to sell them) and she insisted on opening the opaque outer package just to make sure they were "OK." I think she was just curious. Had I been a little older I'd have had more fun playing along.

Happens all the time at Walmart, there is/was even a website for weird Walmart stuff

This story remains a favourite, and inspired a few bits of artwork which I thought I'd repost following the board crash.

I feel we are too negative on each other for wanting to go out in public with a little exposure of wearing a diaper. I am not talking about going out in public with nothing but a shirt and diaper on. I mean I think we are too hard on some for just wanting a little thrill of wearing a diaper in public. We don't mind if a lady was wearing a short skirt. It's the same principle. I just think its a little hypocritical of some to judge others on wanting to wear in public. Yes there are some that take it too far and make us look bad. Im talking about just a little exposure maybe just one corner of the diaper is showing or just a little buldge. Really none of us should wear diapers at all in public if we don't need too. It's just my opinion. I know most won't agree with me and thats fine.

Does being an ABDL make it stranger for you? Or is it normal?

Yeah, it's not weird. Why would it be? The A in AB stands for "Adult". My kid is my kid is my kid, and he needs is dad. So I'm dad first and foremost around him.

It was a long time ago, but I kept my parent and AB sides completely separate, both physically & in my head. I didn't find that difficult & found it essential to being a responsible parent. I've never regretted that.