Why can't we just enjoy an ABDL lifestyle without wanting everyone to accept it? It is a very personal thing. Do you tell everyone every time you're going to the bathroom, or anything else of a personal nature? Personally, I enjoy a very fulfilling ABDL lifestyle in the privacy of my own home and wouldn't EVER want to share what I do even with my family. The reason is simple: People who do not enjoy ABDL will wrongly associate it with pedophilia--GUARANTEED! Anything associated with babies and children is considered sacred ground, and to enjoy something reserved for young children--especially if there is a sexual aspect to it--is considered taboo. We know what other people might think isn't true, but THEY don't know that. Besides, you CAN enjoy ABDL in public if you do it discreetly. Just wear a diaper under your clothes and keep it to yourself--it's as simple as that.