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i finally received my new Mary Jane shoes in the mail this pat week. The quality is very high and they look awesome. They even were in a lovely cloth storage bag with a pink ribbon drawstring. I got to wear them out with my white lacy baby socks to a Littles night at a venue we rented for the night here in Kansas City last night and I got compliments and questions on where I got them.

Sometimes I wonder how many guys on this planet use stents and diapers to enjoy the real need for diapers. Maybe ten, maybe one

Thank you all for your advice ... I

Sorry you had such a crappy day. Those kinda days suck.

I like your avatar, PD :)

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Hey there Pamper, welcome to the site, what are your classes in creative writing like?

On the flip side of the topic.

Don't repress it, I was barely out of diapers (6yo) when I knew I wanted back in them. Growin up I'd sneak some for my personal use, going so far at around 12-13 to use my allowance to buy Attends and hid them under my bed behind the drawers (Had a bed with pull out drawers underneath). Its part of who we are, true, many don't understand our need, but to deny it will only make it worse.

Yes this What you've got is conflicting feelings, and the only really workable solution it to give enough to each so that you can manage your life best. First is to accept that you're stuck with the desire to wear and that it is a need which can be managed but not fully overcome. Then you find a way to satiate that need with the least impact on the rest of your life I'm big on analogies, here's one: I love candy but I more love being relatively slim. I cannot resist candy- if I have a bag of sweets I will eat them all in short order. So the solution for me is to not buy them and not have any in my home- thus I can't eat them since they're not here. But I know that I need candy so I allow myself a small amount of candy once a week, which keeps me from going crazy or getting fat. You can do something similar with diapers, making a time and place for them without letting them unduly influence the rest of your life. Over time you'll find the best balance for yourself. Another consideration is that when you try to suppress a need it simply gets stronger and stronger until it overwhelms you. When you're overwhelmed you will not be capable of good logic and good decisions so the best thing is to avoid becoming overwhelmed by allowing yourself to fill your own needs enough to remain in control of them You've come here seeking solutions and thoughts from people who like yourself have a need to wear diapers. All we can do is offer those to you- you have to decide for yourself which approaches you want to try. Just remember that success comes only after a string of failures so keep working on achieving your best solution until you get the best results you can. And if your goal is to end the need and you find a way that works, drop in and let us know because it is the best solution for a lot of people, just one that has not yet been discovered. It may not exist but if nobody tries nobody will ever know. Just don't harm yourself trying Bettypooh

It doesn't go away.

If I remember rightly, a lot of people here predicted this would happen when you last posted here. Repressing anything is bad and will always find a way out one way or the other and has you have found when your mind or body craves something that you don't give it the desire only gets stronger until it can't be ignored. I think you are discovering now how deep things like this can go and getting rid of the feelings isn't always easy or even possible. I would definitely suggest that you give in to the desires somewhat and allow yourself to enjoy nappies. It doesn't have to be all or nothing, just wearing a nappy whenever the desire takes is fine and would even probably be healthy for you since it will stop your mind from obsessing on it so much. It is bad to repress things completely and it is also bad to devote your life to it as well. You need to find where your happy medium is, I think once you do you will feel a lot better about everything.