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This might sound harsh.....but if you cannot afford to have children then DON'T!!

Anyone here ever use spreader pants? I was looking at some pictures the other day and seen some. My wife liked the way they looked and said she would like to see me locked in some and forced to crawl around to please her. Was wondering if they are comfortable to wear for long periods of time. Also looking for a good place to buy some that are lockable.

Hi Everybody, I just wanted to share this news that touched my heart in some way:

Sometimes you need help from others. My own memory is awful and getting worse slowly. I carry a small notebook with me and write down the important stuff so that I don't forget it Kind of funny but when you write something down it sticks in your memory better even if you don't go back and read what you wrote You might give that a try and see if it helps. The notes don't have to be complete, just enough so that you know what they mean yourself- nobody else reads them anyway:P Some of my notes would qualify as unknown heiroglyphics but as long as I can read them, that's enough. Give this a try if you think it might help, all I know is that it works for me and many others so it might work for you too!

Hang out with friends, acquire some hobbies etc. Don't let your life revolve around diapers.

As I see it, there are a bunch of good answers above, but I would put it to you as a choice: A) your desire/need can control you, in which case you will go nuts trying to suppress it, or B ) you can control your desire, by recognizing its phases and acting on it when you need to, before it takes over your life and takes you away from other good things you need. It will wax and wane...and, if you find yourself a good place to act on it, you won't have to suffer consequences like you might if it busts out around the seams of your life. You can also save substantial resources by putting things in a box for next time when you are satiated and start having thoughts about how silly and embarrassing it is. I myself wear part time...sometimes I feel the need, other times I am a little too preocupied with the rest of my life to bother. But I don't let the diapers and other wierd stuff get in the way of everything else...I just happen to be diapered that day, and get on with it...my wife, my job, chatting too much on line, my house, my friends, my hobbies, whatever! If you satiate yourself with diapers from time to time, or even all the time, it's really no big deal. It is just taking care of your peculiar self!

I've been seeing a shrink for years now - initially to get rid of my desire to wear diapers. I now have a pretty good understanding of where and how this desire developed. The therapy has worked wonders - for my relationship with my wife (who does NOT approve of diapers and the threat of divorce brought me to the shrink). As has been said consistently above, however, I've come to accept myself for who I am and I don't think my 'need' for diapers will go away. Notice what I'd thought of was a 'desire' is now acknowledged as a 'need'.