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  2. So, today I was going to lunch with my best friend (who knows I wear pull-ups) and another friend. Circumstances prevented me from changing into underwear, which I don't really mind because I've been outside in pull-ups before(they're pretty thin compared to diapers), and I told my friend in advance as to make sure of no surprise butt smacks . We were walking into the restaurant and my friend (the one who doesn't know I wear pull-ups) said to me "Girl, your butt is looking good today, I don't know if it's the jeans, but you're gonna have some guys looking at you." Anyway, we ate, talked, and after my best friend and I went to our cars, which were parked right beside each other, she said "Sabrina, you're gonna have to bring an extra diaper next time 'cause I'm wearing one too". I realize she was kidding, but I thought it was funny.
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  3. I bet this has been taken to task too many times. Why not once more? I know of two main stream disposable diaper companies that cater to AB/DL's Bambino's with their Classico, Bianco and Teddies. ABU with their Cushies and SDK's. Everything else is designed as an adult brief, incontinence product or absorbent underpants. But never use the word DIAPER! Unless you put a diaper tape on the front of one. Then it looks like adult sized Pampers, Huggies or Luvs. So what is your Favorite? Can you explain why you like your brand the best?
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  4. Classy Comfort??? They're cute but pricey @ 2 bucks/diaper ABU is coming out with a diaper that holds over a gallon of liquid. But they cost $ 3 each. That's just silly!
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  5. For awhile now I have been reading about those who wish to become incontinent. While I am not saying that you should or shouldn't try the 12 month program and make a very life altering decision, I would like those that are thinking about it to read about what being truly incontinent means. A week in the life of someone that is where you want to be, if I dare say. To start, a little background on me. I shoveled some wet heavy snow one fine January day here in NY. I was finished and back in the house when my back felt like it was on fire. Took a shower, took some tylenol, and then retreated to the bedroom. All was better 2 days later. Then about a week later, the pain came back and I noticed some parts of my leg were numb to the touch. For about 7 months I worked through it while the pain subsided and the only symptom was the numb spot. Then one day in August I had an exceptionally brutal day at work. That night my back wasn't bothering me but something felt weird. I went to bed as normal but was woken up by the strange feeling of being wet. I had just wet the bed for the first time in my life. Didn't think anything of it and cleaned up the mess. Next night, the same thing happened. The day after that, I wet myself while getting ready for work. I called in sick so that I could call the doctor's office. She did get me in that early afternoon and referred me immediately to a urologist and suggested that I should "get some protection" in the mean time. Went that afternoon to the urologist, and had some really fun tests that saw Mr. Happy get stuff shoved up him that were either negative or inconclusive. He scheduled me for more tests that had to be done in the hospital. None of these tests showed anything. So here we are, one year after the initial incident, I am wearing diapers 24/7 until I can find out what is causing my incontinence. This next year had me to 2 other urologists, a shrink, and a neurologist. Still nothing. By the middle of the third year, my back pain returned. It had gotten to the point that I could not walk through a store without having to sit down to rest my back. Back to the doctors I go and she has an MRI done on my back. I went a week later to get the results and am shocked by the news. I have a ruptured disc at L5-S1 and a herniated disc at L4-L5 both with nerve root compression. Basically the cause of my incontinence has been found. So what does my background have anything to do with this? Well I want you to think about my situation and what you are going to put yourself through. Are you ready for this? Financially, emotionally, physically. Financially are you able to buy diapers. I use anywhere from 4-8 pullups a day along with 3 abena xplus diapers. Now doing the math, that can be anywhere from a low of $7.50 a day to $12.00 a day just in diapers. Now lets add in rash creme, diaper creme, wipes, and a couple of odds and ends that I have probably forgot and that tacks on an additional $1.00 a day. So at the time of this writing, can you afford $59.50 to $91 a week for this. And if you lose your job are you going to be able to afford it for at least one year with only unemployment payments. There were times when I was unemployed and I had to make a tough choice between food and diapers. And remember that I have to have them, I don't have a choice. Emotionally can you deal with a lot of different situations that you would not rather have someone know that you are incontinent. How are you going to tell your family? I know how and when you are going to tell them, the first time you have an accident in front of them. How are you going to explain it to them? Does your SO or wife/husband know? What do they think about your desire? Are they going to be there 20+ years later to help you? More than likely they aren't going to be on board with it in the AB/DL aspect, but would not run away screaming either. You will have to come up with a story about slowly losing control (now re-read my background above again about testing). And if you are single, dating is going to be tough. While most will tell you that they are fine with it, they aren't going to be calling you again either. While some relationships can endure, many will fall apart. Have you thought about being out in public? Are you prepared for the embarrassing accident in the middle of the store, mall, movie theater, etc.? Are you ready to carry around a diaper bag every where you go? I have to carry a backpack that has 4-6 pullups, an abena, a change of clothes, cremes, wipes, and plastic bags to put the soiled diaper in. If the store is busy, then many that come in and out of the bathroom know what I am doing. When I have gone shopping, I have had my diaper bag searched. I have had to buy clothes unexpectedly at a store because my diaper leaked again. I have had rude and insensitive comments when buying diapers and from people that have seen my diaper sticking out above my waistband. I have had comments about poopy diapers as well that weren't very nice. Work is a little tougher to deal with as well. Many will know about your diapers and be nice to your face about it but are not so nice when you aren't there. Physically can you deal with the unexpected surge in laundry? The 2am changing of your bed because you had too much to drink? Having to rinse out plastic pants daily? I have 2 pairs of plastic pants that I have to rinse out daily along with 1 additional load of laundry a week that I have to do. Sheets get washed at least weekly but are usually every 3-4 days. And remember that I have been doing this awhile and when this all began, I was washing sheets and clothes daily. I have got leaks under control fairly well but there is the accident that happens. Then there is having to clean furniture, carpeting, and bedding because you leaked. Are you ready to throw out your Saturday night plans because you have to spend some time cleaning up because you "forgot" to change? How are you planning on dealing with diaper rash? I can tell you that it is very painful and doesn't go away fast. So go ahead and go on the 12 month program. I am not going to stop you. I would like you too think about the flip side of it. While the desire of incontinence might be strong, I would suggest to wear 24/7 for at least 3 years before doing anything else. I want you to do everything as normal except you pee and poop in your diaper. Then go to your parents house ( and friends houses) and use only your diapers. I want you to poop in front of them. I want you to have an accident in front of them. I want you go to a crowded store and poop your diaper in the furthest possible point away from the bathrooms. See if you can make it to the bathroom without some of the poop coming out. I want you to go out for a nice romantic night with your SO and have to go home in the middle of it because you leaked out on your clothes. I want you to go into your bosses office and poop in front of him while asking him a question. I want you to have an accident in front of your co-workers. I want you to hear all of the taunts, comments, and rudeness that goes with this. I want you to take 6 months of the 3 years and have to decide every other week if you are going to buy food or diapers. So in the end you have a choice. Either stay in control and wear diapers, even 24/7 if that makes you happy. Or you can lose control and possibly find out what I just told you. It is your choice but I beg you to think about it. I know that this will probably either get me banned or flamed. I would like to see it pinned below the 12 month program post but know that there is only a slim chance of that happening. If you are truly incontinent and have something to add, please feel free. Allen
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  6. Heya Guys, When I am not in "Playland" I am in business land and one aspects that my company deals with is brokering satellite TV service. We can get promotional rates on the big two in the US. For more info, PM me and we can go from there :-) or I can check back on this thread weekly. Ciao!
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  7. Nah guys, its me - and just checkin the validity of the market or post. We all make a living selling something or helping someone sell something right?
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  8. While I am sympathetic to those who cry, "Get a job! Get a Bank account! Get a life! Live your dream! Long Live The New Flesh!!! - without knowing more about op's personal life, I am not so eager to jump in with both barrels drawn. Let's remember that many with our special interest are insecure, and this too often stems from actual and severe difficulty coping with life. Many people with such difficulties, from autism to asberger's to physical stuff have to put up with being over-mothered, having their life run by their parents, guardians, governesses and interferers-in-general. They take away one's freedom of choice, and infantilize those to whom they are so over-protective; incidentally reinforcing the tendency towards feeling comforted by diapers, by the bye. With all the kind intent in the world, they are disablers who fear to enable; all the more so if their charges show themselves less than competent: vulnerable persons, who "need" close observation and continual looking after. Throw in overly religious people, with a screwy application of their religiosity, and you have the mother from CARRIE, the movie. (Hey BabyMichelle - if you haven't seen the original (directed by de Palma) please do so and see if you can identify with it...http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0074285/ ) I am not assuming anything about OP's actualrl situation: I am saying that as I can imagine a person in such a position, I can suppose OP may warrant our sympathy and assistance, not our harshness. I may be wrong and OP is a feckless lazy mouse; but until I know otherwise, OP gets the benefit of my doubt.) Rightie-ho then. Advice. First of all, I would commend you to join Adisc, if you haven't already: it is a support site for abdl's in distress. There you might find more sympathy, and more people willing and able to help you out. I bet chances are you WANT, CRAVE independence in your life; and us telling you to behave!!! and assert yourself is not only not useful but makes you feel worse. Now assuming you can get out on your own and can get hold of cash, I would ask you to try going to medical supply shops. In my experience, (which is not everyone's experience) they are populated by kindly little old ladies who ooze sympathy the way used car salesmen ooze smarm. They are pros at putting you at your ease: that's how they compete with Walmart, who sell the same things at 2/3 the price. Go buy samples in your size, of all their brands; and don't forget that med supply shops are about the only non-online retailers who stock plastic pants in your size. This gets you a variety of diapers to try, and at a reasonable cost, since you are buying them by ones and twos. Not to mention getting you decent quality ones. As you read between the lines on this site and any other site for enjoyers of diapers you'll discover that better diapers make for a much better time in them. Including a less leaky time. The last thing you want is for the wrong people to find wetspots in your bed because you overdid it the night before... At least with plastic pants over top, those wetspots are a little less likely... You may wake up wet and soggy but at least contained until you can get rid of the evidence...
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  9. Nope not a troll, but thanks for playing.
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  10. i like goodnites! i love how much they sag!
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  11. i did not have a normal childhood and i am not having a normal adulthood. i am not having a life. it is not possible for me to have a life. this is because i'm done disservices because i can't do favors. i'm transcribing the contents of a human existence without embellishment. if the content of my posts becomes unacceptable i hope you eventually take it as a sign of more than the fault of a transcriber. this might go on for some time. i'm not going to read my threads.
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  12. Perhaps then you should create a blog, or make a thread in the depression forum and post all your ramblings there. Then others will not be bogged down with unneccessary threads. If you are truely in the state which you claim, then go to the depression forum and call any one of the numbers listed in the emergency hotline thread.
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  13. Was she kidding? Could be she wants to try it, but is afraid to ask or try on her own. With all the references on TV nowadays, I bet there are a lot of curious people out there. I'd call her out on it. You might be surprised.
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  14. yea, id second that. sounds like its worth a shot. and if she denys it, push a little. worst case is nothing changes.
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  15. i have a desktop i built myself. cot about 1600, but was well worth it, and it runs ubuntu. the best part of your computer i believe would be the SSD. even a windows OS can start in 60 seconds on that. try ubuntu though, mine can boot in under 20 seconds. to fully functional. yours could do it in 10. lol. also, ill say this. the ONLY reason macs have such high reliability is because two types of people use it. People who dont know any better, or professionals who need specific soft. there is no reason on the face of the planet to buy a mac. if you like the layout, use ubuntu. if you like the "reliability" you shouldn't own a computer. macs have just as many issues as PC, but because only 3-5% of the world actually uses them, its not as well known. and im not gonna pay $3000 for hardware when i can get better for $600. working at bestbuy, i can honestly say that macs are the number 1 thing returned out of the entire store, and for geeksquad service, macs have the simplest issues that their users cant seem to figure out. (is it pluged in? last i checked, even Apple and their super computers still need power) now, im not Saying they are useless. but to anyone who isnt a professional in the media industry, they are. and over priced. most people use bootcamp anyway, so why buy something that most good soft dosnt work on anyway?
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  16. How about a link? http://www.dprtube.com doesn't get anywhere.
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  17. has anyone been on dprtube and watched the video "Mom Discuesses Son Is Still in Diapers After 14 Years of Potty Training" omg i swear that is how i want life to be!!!!!!!! its a huge turn-on
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