Why We Wear Diapers
Responses to our Wellness Briefs
contest on "Why I Wear Diapers"
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I wear diaper because they have always provided me
security for many different things in life. I have wore
them to help relieve stress, to help me feel more
comfortable about who I am. and because I feel protected
from bad things in life. Diapers have kept me from doing
really bad things in life like drugs or getting involved
in gangs. The helped me when my grandparents died, They
are helping me right now handle going through a divorce.
Diapers have always been a constant in my life when
everything else got so chaotic that
I didn't know what to do. They have always comforted me
in times of need. Diapers are
my security
Kaden,
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I was a long time bed wetter until I was thirteen or so,
and the I grew out of my bedwetting problem. In my teen
years I was in a bad car accident at the age of
seventeen. One thing to be said was that it was not my
fault. I suffered two herniated discs in my lower back
and it worsened with time. I was lucky enough to get a
football scholarship to a large University. By the time
I was half way into my freshmen year in college I
started having more pain in my back due to my athletic
choices. This pain worsened quickly and I then started
having leg weakness, followed by bladder control issues.
So by the time I finished my second semester, I had done
enough nerve damage to my spine that I was back in
diapers at night and wearing an external catheter during
the day. I was young and foolish. Instead of looking for
help I just waited, and by the time I looked for help I
had done irreversible damage. So I sit here either
wearing a diaper or an external catheter to keep my
clothes/ bed dry. I can say the road that got me back
into diapers was unexpected. But I cannot say that I do
not enjoy them. I enjoy the warmth and safety of them. I
may not have gone where I intended to go in life, but I
think I ended up where I intended to be. Happily married
and a father of two children.
Craig, 39 |
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I remember when I was young; potty
trained the first time, and seeing diapers for the first
time. My mom worked as a preschool teacher and had some
kids that still wore diapers to school, lucky punks. I
was visiting her classroom one day and excused myself to
bathroom, where on the shelf over the toilet was a big
stack of pampers. I pulled one down and I can still
remember the smell and feel of it. I knew there was
something special about this soft crinkling diaper I
held in my hand. For years after that I always took a
trip to the bathroom at her school to reunite with my
newly found friend. Over the years I kept an eye out for
diapers but never had the chance to have any of my own.
I knew my mom would never let me wear them cause they
were for babies. She made them sound forbidden and
mysterious. That made them special. My heart was
pounding out of my chest as paid the clerk for my first
big bag of diapers and carried them to my car. Even
though it was many years after that first experience in
the bathroom, when I opened the package and smelled that
familiar sent again, I melted.
The feeling of a thick crinkly
diaper between my legs is like crawling into a warm bed,
comfy, safe and instantly calming. It doesn’t matter how
bad a day I may have been through, a diaper with a
bottle of milk washes away all my troubles. Hearing a
little crinkle over the bustle of the warehouse, feeling
the thick padding when reaching for my wallet, or
walking with mommy knowing that we share a special
secret reminds me that no matter how hard life gets, I
have my diapers and I’m ok. I know that others may never
understand my love for diapers, but it’s not for them,
it’s for me. It makes me special, and every little boy
should know that he’s special. It’s doesn’t hurt that my
fiancé/mommy loves the feel of my crinkly padded butt. Happy
diapers!
Sean, 27
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The reason I wear diapers is
growing up I have been a life long diaper lover. As far
back as I can remember I have been attracted to diapers.
As a child I used to get extra diapers from when my mom
would baby sit other kids, Once I was old enough to work
I would buy diapers with the money I saved. Not having a
computer growing up I felt I was the only one like this
in the whole world. Then I found through the internet
that there were lots of others like me.
About 5 years ago I met my wife and
when we were dating I told her about my attraction to
wearing diapers. She was accepting of this and life was
good. Then about 4 years ago I started having bedwetting
issues at night ( I thought it was due to my sleep
apnea) and eventually this progressed to having day time
issues. This was a difficult period for me as I have
never had to wear 24/7 and it really impacted my life.
My wife was very supportive through all of this and
helped me come to terms with it. I am now accepting of
my condition ( Urologists can't figure out what is
causing this after 2 years of testing) and I have come
to accept that diapers are my new underwear and that is
just how it is. I am now finding myself enjoying wearing
again.
John, 39
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I have been wearing diapers as long as I can remember.
When I was younger I had to could only wear vinyl pants.
When I got older I started wearing diapers, and rubber
pants.
I have gone through two wives before I found a lovely
women who understands my love of diapers. We both
have pictures on the Daily Diaper Site. People who
do not wear diapers have no idea of the peace and
comfort that wearing diapers bring. It's like
stepping back in time. I think if everyone would
wear diapers people would get along much better. I
how can you get angry with anyone while wearing a nice
soft comfortable diaper, and a pair of baby pants.
I am 58 years old, and have reached the point in my life
that I don't advertise my wearing diapers, but I make no
attempt to hide it. If people are at our house and
they see them, then they see them, I don't worry about
it. If someone happens to notice that I am wearing
diapers, then they notice, I don't give it a
second thought. Better to be dry then
embarrassed.
Thank you for your time,
Dan, 58
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The reason for why I wear diapers at first was it was
like a security blanket for me. At the age of 5 my
parents separated and this causes a log of stress on
myself. I can remember a few years later wanting to go
back to when I was younger when my parents were still
together and everything I like seemed perfect. This
obviously could not happen so my attachment to diapers
started. It wasn't till the age of 12 that I came across
my first wearable adult diaper at my neighbor’s house. I
ended up taking one home and instantly felt safe and
happy. Well after that time has just gone by and no 15
years later I am still wearing diapers as often as
possible and I have a loving wife that accepts,
understands, and is willing to wear with me. It would be
great to win some Wellness briefs! I have ordered them
in the past and they are truly a great diaper and
currently only have a few left. Just currently at the
moment don't have any money to spend as I am currently
looking for a new job as my current job won’t be
available too much longer. That and with college loan
payments and being a newlywed finances are extremely
tight. If I were to win some diapers I would be
extremely excited, but if I don't I’m glad I could tell
my story on why i wear diapers.
Brendan, 27
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Because of a car accident i am
Incont and have been wearing diapers since i was 14
years old. I am now 34 at first i was ashamed
embarrassed i was so nervous somebody would find out in
school and i would be made fun of. I was a late bloomer
but when i went through puberty i began to have urges
any teenage boy might have and would think about being
treated like a baby. To this day i still think about and
hope to find a woman who will treat me like the baby i
want to be. I was given the option to start using
catheters but the risk of infections and and the fact
catheters are uncomfortable and are just plain
horrible. I would never give up wearing my diapers they
are comfortable and even comforting. Now i do not go
around telling people i wear diapers because i am Incont
i am using them for there intended purpose and it is a
private matter. That not everyone wants to hear about.
Over the years i have found ways to keep this problem
from becoming knowledge of people who do not need to
know.
Tim, 34 |
I wear diapers for a fetish...
pretty plain and simple. But I think it generates from
when I was about 12 years old, my Parents were on
vacation, and the Sister of my friend was watching my
Sister and I. I was at school, playing tag or something,
and didn't want to give up my hiding spot. I ended up
having an accident, and sent home from School. For
whatever reason, the Babysitter had me go shower, change
clothes and instead of underwear, she put me in a
diaper. I think that's the moment that affected me.
These days, I love how they look, the feel, the colors
and thickness. And to be honest, Wellness, when you open
the pack of diapers, has the most INTENSE diaper smell,
they smell so good. I tell everyone about the pleasing
smell, it just smells like fresh diapers and it's
heavenly !! Diapers are important to me for relaxing at
home, the soft crinkle when you move, the bulkiness are
all constant pleasant reminders, the feel of them on is
very erotic. So it all boils down to, I need diapers to
bring me back to those times, the early times of my
discovery, and it's a personal fetish, it doesn't hurt
anyone else. Diapers are absolutely a wonderful
experience !!
Andrew, 43 |
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Why do I wear adult
diapers/ briefs? I wear them because I would rather have
to change a diaper than wash sheets, blankets, clothes
etc… not to mention being able to avoid the
embarrassment of having to apologize to my wife about
wetting the bed (at the age of 27). I've been wetting
the bed off and on since I was a young kid (around the
age of 5). My mom started off making me wear Huggies to
be every night, but I grew out of those over time, so,
she began to buy Goodnights for me to wear instead. This
continued until I was 14….then things kind of sorted
themselves out. I still wet the bed a few times a year
between the ages of 14-21….until I was deployed to Iraq
(Sep 05- May 06). I'm not sure what happened, I know I
got an infection while i was over there, but it had an
effect on my bladder, and consequently I began wetting
the bed again. When the problem came back I was
devastated…I mean hell, I was supposed to be a bad ass,
gun wielding, soldier… and here I was pissing myself in
my sleep. I made it through my deployment without anyone
knowing about my problem. When I got home I started
buying Depends and, over time, I learned about buying
diapers online. I found Abena's and stayed with them for
the better part of 4 years until I found out about the
Wellness Briefs.
I began purchasing the
Wellness briefs right around the time my wife found out
about my problem. She actually found out because one of
my Abena's had leaked one night so badly that it woke
her up…I was so ashamed. We talked about what was going
on, and, because she's a nurse she was able to talk be
through everything, coax me into going to a doctor and
informing the VA, and helped my find a brief that would
work through the night.
Since my wife got me
into the Wellness briefs things have been great. There
are no leaks at night, I am confident that when I go to
sleep that when I wake up the bed, my wife and I will
all be dry. It also turns out that seeing me in diapers
kind of turns my wife on…so I get to have a hot nurse
put me in a diaper, we both get turned on and martial
things happen….giggidy giggly goo….hahaha. In all
seriousness though, having the Wellness briefs is truly
a blessing. Without them I'm not sure if I would be able
to sleep as comfortably at night; my night time
incontinence would not be managed effectively, at least
that's what I think.
James, 27
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I wear diapers because I've loved them since I was
little. I wear them more for fetish than necessity. I
love the sense of comfort, security, and freedom they
give me. I don't mess them, but I love the way they feel
when I wet them. I'm more of a DL than an AB. Diapers
are great for road trips or even trips to town when
finding a bathroom can be really inconvenient. I prefer
the plastic-backed diapers, not a big fan of the
cloth-like covers. In fact Wellness Briefs are probably
my favorite. Wearing diapers is my personal little
secret, but Id love to find my own AB/DL girl to share
my love of diapers with. I love your site and I hope my
answer is satisfactory.
Dustin, 31 |
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Not long after potty training, my
mom put a diaper on me. She thought it would be cute.
But ever since, I have questioned why I couldn't wear
diapers, and what it would be like if I could. Also
being the younger of two boys, my mom referred to me as
her baby. It wasn't until I was 22 that I went to the
store and bought my own diapers, and found what I have
been missing. After a long and stressful day of work, I
found it relaxing, and relieving. I feel joy in not
worrying about trips to the bathroom. I love the comfort
and security that I have in a diaper.
Wearing diapers has
positively changed my life. I found out a couple years
ago that I was suffering from depression. All of the
times that I could have let things get to me, and make
me feel, and think the worst, my antidepressant was
diapers. I most definitely would be in a worse place if
I didn't have them. Every time I put one on my stress
disappears.
Kristofer, 35 |
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My grandma put me in diapers at night
and she would lock my brother and I in our bed rooms
till she got up in the morning. and to keep changing the
sheets everyday she put diapers on me.
Now I am hooked on wearing my diapers.
At first I didn't have a clue why I like to wear
diapers. Now I wear my diaper everyday At fisrt it was
just to be wearing them. I have tried many times to give
them up and not wear anymore and it would work for a
while. Then I would be walking thru a store like CVS and
Walgreens and would find myself standing in the isle
that had the adult diapers and thinking how good it
would feel to have a diaper between my legs. Then before
I knew it I was buying a pack of diapers.
Its kind of like when you have a bad
day at work you go home and sit down and have a cold
beer and it makes you feel better and relaxed. That's
the feeling I get when I pull a diaper up between my
legs and tape it on myself. The sad part was I hide them
from my wife and she had no clue I was wearing diapers
when she and the kids would go out for an afternoon on
the town. A few years ago I told her about my love for
wearing adult diapers and wetting them like you meant
for them when you made them. Now my loving wife will
diaper me. She changes my diapers when I need them to be
changed. It was the best thing I ever did telling Her
that I loved to wear diapers. She has been so
understanding since I told her about my love of diapers.
David, 45
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I enjoy diapers for both a necessity as well as a
comfort. In the job I work in, I sometimes would go
about 3 hours in between breaks, with my bladder barely
hanging on. They are a practical tool of the modern
workplace in my opinion, where on the phone compliance
is a must, and no needing to worry about bathroom lines
or occupied stalls.
My second reason is one of comfort. In that same modern
workplace I am in , the stress just piles and piles up
on you. So diapers for me are also a stress relief, like
a wearable comfort zone that you can just sink your
senses into, and lose yourself for a few hours, escaping
those stresses of the workaday world. These are the main
reasons I wear diapers and enjoy them. For comfort as
well as physical need, there's no better thing indeed!
:)
Nate, 37 |
I currently wear diapers because I wet the bed. More
often than not, I wake up soaked, not realizing when my
bladder had emptied itself. So, diapers are required at
night. I prefer using premium disposable diapers or
overnight cloth diapers to help manage my bed wetting. I
have tried many different brands so far, (I have not
tried Wellness yet) and have found that SecureCare XPlus
and Bambino diapers offer good levels of protection,
security, and peace of mind. However, they are not
perfect. If Wellness offers more, ie; better fit, more
comfort, less leaks, I'll definitely become a repeat
customer.
There is another reason for me wearing diapers- the
lovely lady who sleeps next to me at night. I would
rather not startle her awake at night because she rolled
over into the puddle I just made. That's embarrassing.
David, 42 |
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Diapers
have been a funny thing in my life. I grew up accident
prone and they always loomed in my future as some odd
threat. Ironically, the threat is what made them seem so
comforting. They never were a necessity in the essence
that I had to wear them 24/7. But they kept me focused
on being better back then. It is probably why I need
them so badly now. All the pain and humiliation I
associated with the accidents were something that could
be symbolized and neutralized with them. While yes,
there's the embarrassing tell-tale crinkle that could
give my secret out at any second, and the warm fluff
between my legs that reminds me of the comfort of
simpler times, it has become even more than that. Its
become an escape into my vulnerabilities. A path away
from the straight and narrow that allows me to embrace
the good and the bad of what makes me different.
Diapers
have always been a lot more than just something simple,
and there is a quality to them that seems intangible.
They escalate things and make me feel the way I want to
feel in that given moment. When I want to be comforted
by them, I can be. When I want to feel like I'm strange
and doing something wrong, they can do that for me. When
I need to escape from responsibilities they will be
there, and when I just need the encouragement to focus
and keep going, that's what they do. The need is there,
just as a child may need a parent to comfort or scold
them. They've become part of my growth as a person and
something I've fallen back to whenever times have been
hard.
Dave, 24
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I have been wearing diapers for no medical reason since
i was 12. back then i would sneak away and by toddler
size pampers. I am now 49. I do have prostate surgery
that makes me need to go more often. blander holds less.
i have bladder control, but compromised because of
surgery ,put also mental conditioning of willfully
diapers. i am not a adult baby. i am a diaper lover.
nothing babyish except diaper wearing. i am almost 24/ 7
diapers. i also wear diapers to work. in most cases they
last the whole. i also get more done, which helps me
make more money-- because of not needing bathrooms. hard
to say if buying diapers and making extra income
balances out or break even. i pee the day away.
i will also #2 . but not at work. i am a
merchandiser . so i visit many stores a day. in the
event of a mid day change. i have places that have one
person public restrooms. they know of the diapers. i am
married. my wife doesnt get involved with my diaper
wearing. but just puts with it. thank you for listening.
Mike, 49 |
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Well to start I wear diapers at
work I drive a truck long distances and bathrooms are
not always amiable after so many accidents in the
drivers seat my co- driver started making me wear them.
He is also my daddy so who can argue I also wear them
because I like them the comfort is great I lost my
ability to hold my pee three years ago when I went
through chemo and it took out my bladder muscle so
diapers are a must for me and I will admit I wear them
too thanks for your time reading this entry.
Charlotte, 31
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When you look at me you see normal-
average, vanilla, boring. Whatever you want you call it.
But I have a secret: I wear diapers. All kinds! love
to experiment. I am about 120 pounds, so I can wear
Goodnights and Underjams as well as adult diapers.
Wearing diapers makes me feel special. Like someone is
taking care of me (even though they aren't). People
think I am so successful- that I get everything I want
so easily. But that isn't true. I have worked hard to
get to where I am in life and I deserve most of the
credit for it. I wish I didn't. I wish there was someone
who could hug me and say "We did this together." But
there isn't. It's human nature to seek out comfort.
Which is why I wear diapers. They give me that comfort.
And NOBODY knows.
Ashley, 27
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I wear diapers at night because I have
a problem with bed wetting, thus i wear diapers so my
bed stays dry. I take medication for a mood disorder
called bipolar. My doctor says he thinks one of the
medications( I think the one I was on at the time that
was causing problems was lithium ) I was taking caused
problems that resulted in me not being able to control
my bladder when sleeping. At one point it was effecting
me during the day too, but that was before they found
out it was the medication and I stopped taking it. For
some reason the bed wetting has not gone away even
though I don't have problems during the day anymore, so
I have to wear them at night.
Andrew, 18
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Even from a very young age after
being potty trained, I've desired to wear diapers.
I didn't actually begin wearing adult diapers until I
was around 22 yrs or so. It has always been a well
kept secret from all who know me, and none of whom would
ever suspect or imagine me doing such a thing!
With a wife and kids, there's rarely an opportunity for
some alone time to enjoy my desire, and as such, prior
to my most recent opportunity it had been ten months
since I've worn any. My enjoyment in having some
personal time just hanging out in a diaper (always at
home) is twofold. Physically, for some reason it's
a major turn on. The feel of how a diaper makes
contact with me, crinkles, and seeing photos of women
wearing is just awesome. However, intimacy with my
wife is still better no matter what, but when I'm alone
this is my preference. Secondly, the feeling of
mental regression that comes with wearing a diaper
simply makes me feel at ease, allows me to temporarily
escape and forget about all the stresses of life, and I
think it's primarily for this reason that I truly love
being in diapers. I've never really experimented
with the ab aspect of it, and since I'm always alone in
diapers, it's more of a curiosity than anything.
I'm very glad to have discovered
dailydiapers.com
and see that there are others out there who share my
situation, or at least understand my perspective!
Brian, 23
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