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Dear Daily:
Right, I have been a Diaper Lover for a
long time. I wear nappies, I wet them, and went on a few
diaper lover websites (this one included), I love the way
they feel and they are comfy to wear.
Right, that’s my life of nappies explained, and I love
them because its my sexual fetish, and even the thought of
wearing them makes me feel good. However, it’s a nice
feeling, but it is also a bad feeling. My love for nappies
was based on it being a sexual urge, but the thing is, I
want to let go of this urge for good.
See, I have a girlfriend, who I know is not into sexual
things, as she hates panty shots, she hates anime characters
that have been made as "fan-service", and she gets
very disturbed when the subject is brought up. Frankly I
don’t blame her, as I don’t like those things either,
but the reason I want to stop my sexual urge is because I
feel like I am lying to her, which is something I really
don’t want to do. I never want to have sex, ever, but my
love for nappies has grown to be a lot more threatening, as
it itself is a sexual fetish as well as a good comfort, and
if I were to tell her about it I am too afraid I might lose
her because she will end up thinking I have been lying to
her when I said "I don’t like sex", which is
completely untrue.
I really need help on this badly, I know loving them isn’t
something to be ashamed of, but the fact is, the way I am
handling my life now with my girlfriend, I need to stop
loving nappies or there is a chance I could lose her for
good. Basically I need advice on how to handle this, I told
someone and felt a great intensity when telling someone for
the first time (thankfully that someone doesn’t think less
of me), and if I tell her its not going to feel any better.
What’s worse is that despite what I want to do, stopping
isn’t as easy, even at times when I am not wearing them I
drift into these websites and pretend I am, its like my own
version of crack.
Please Help, I need to stop, BADLY, I cannot go on loving
nappies if it is threatening my relationship, and I love her
more than some disposable underwear I can pee into. I just
want to know how I can stop, I am just lost on what to do,
can you help please?
Reply soon -_-
From the "Depressed Diaper Lover"
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Dear Depressed: It can be very difficult
to give up any sexual fetish, especially one that extends to your
non-sexual life such as wearing diapers. My advice, quite simply, is:
don't go it alone. You need to see a therapist that can help you deal with
your diaper issues, and can also serve as a friend to remind you not to
turn back to diapers and internet sites about diapers. Think of it like
being an alcoholic.... Don't go around liquor if you don't want to drink.
Don't get me wrong, for most people
diapers can be a part of a very normal life, but you have expressed a
desire to stop wearing them, and have given a good reason for that desire:
a real life relationship. I do have to warn you of one possible problem:
If diapers are a sexual turn-on to you, than you are in fact interested in
sex, and once you give up the diapers you will probably find your desire
for "normal" sex increases, which it sounds like could also hurt
your relationship.
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