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Dear Daily:
I was happy to find your website, and anyone
who feels they can assist me is welcome to respond. I have been
in diapers for most of my life (all of my adult life) due to
incontinence. As with many of
the other postings I read, I must keep this as a deep dark
secret. This isn't because I am ashamed, but because I am
embarrassed. I am embarrassed enough about it that I take
extreme measures to protect
my secret, for example, multiple encryption while I surf the
web. My situation makes me a very private person.
Some of the other posted messages expressed similar
concerns of mine, such as feelings of isolation and inability to
secure a meaningful relationship. I think my last girlfriend
broke up with me because it was too much for her to handle. I
chose long ago to wear diapers as a remedy to an embarrassing
situation, only to find out that I very much enjoyed wearing
them. Lately, though, I have been frustrated because I feel like
no one could possibly understand what I go through.
I have no intention of ever giving them up, mainly
because I don't see much hope of gaining any continence, also
because I love them too much. What I need is to find others who
live with the same condition, who love diapers, and who
understand just how difficult it can be to live this way. None
of my friends know I wear them. If they did, I am afraid they
would not be my friends anymore. It is no wonder that other
ABDLs found a way to use the net as a way of bringing us
together. Now that I am finally on line, I hope to find new
friends with whom I can be myself without fear or apprehension
of being "found out". My secret is already on
the table. I don't want to be "cured", just
accepted and understood. Along the way I hope to meet a lady who
will accept me and not judge me because of my situation.
Other than the fact that I wear diapers 24-7, I am quite
normal. I am a 36 year old medical student, intelligent, and
athletic. I am, however, lonely. Lonely because I feel like I
must hide from "normal" society for fear of being
teased, humiliated, and mocked, much like I was in my early
grade-school years.
I hope someone out there can offer some advice on how,
where, and when I can insert myself into this misunderstood
society, or maybe I may be able to help someone else with my own
experiences.
I look forward to hearing from any other ABDLs who would
like to offer any insight.
Later,
6abhotee
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Dear 6abhotee:
You are
certainly not alone here! I myself am medically incontinent. When I found
the internet and went online looking for support I found the incontinent
support groups that existed at that time were not really about support and
advice, but whining and crying. I didn't think needing to wear a diaper
should be such a devastating thing. Eventually I found the adult baby
groups of the day, and those babies were MUCH more helpful to me, willing
to give advice on what diapers were best to stay dry, how to dress to hide
my diaper, and everything else I needed to know.
Basically, I became
a diaper lover because of the kindness I was shown, and because they made
me see that I could have fun with my situation, unlike the depressed folks
on the medical support board.
We have plenty
of incontinent AB's and DL's here, so maybe they will write in and offer
advice to you as well?
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