Dear Daily Diapers Letter with Answer

Dear Daily: 

Dear Andy:

     There are many, many reasons that our members give for why they like diapers as adults... too many to accurately list here. And you are correct, abuse as a child is one of the top 10. It stands to reason that someone who was robbed of their innocence and childhood would want to recreate what they missed.

     Is it okay? That's a harder question, and I'm not a therapist... but as I always try to do, I'll share my thoughts. For the adult survivor of abuse, their life has not been 'ok' since their abuse took place. While the goal is always to seek help and become 'normal' again, the truth is that you just can't recover from some things. That's the reason they claim that so many abusers were once abused themselves... it changes you. From that day forward it's all about how you choose to deal with it.

     Therapy is a good outlet, and one I recommend for all abuse survivors. But an hour a week with a sympathetic person just isn't enough for some. Some need to return to a time before their abuse when they last felt safe and secure... and some need to replace real experiences, with a role-play version that turns out better for them.

     Is it wrong to do what you have to do to survive? Is it wrong to wear a diaper and suck your thumb if it's the only thing that lets you sleep at night? Is it wrong to want to feel safe?

     No, I don't think it is wrong. As long as diapers do not take over your life, and you're not hurting anyone, I don't see a problem with it.

     My concern is for those who haven't found a healthy way to deal with their past, not those doing their best to get by.

     Thanks, Andy, for asking such a thought-provoking question. I hope your not asking for yourself... and I hope anyone who needs someone to talk to, knows that we're here for them!

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