Dear Daily Diapers Letter with Answer

Dear Daily: 

I am a secret diaper boy. I made a friend online who wants to wear diapers with me. I need advice on how to do this right. Help??

Phil

Dear Phil:

     Safety is always the most important thing when meeting someone in the real world who you first met online. This is especially true in such a personal situation as being diapered with a new friend. Here are some tips:

  1. Explain your limits clearly and in advance. If you are only looking for diaper play, make it clear you're not interested in sex. If sex is something you are considering give your limits as to what kind of sex and fetishes you want to try, and which ones you do not want!
     

  2. Meet in a public place first. Playing in diapers will require some private time to be sure, but you should meet this person in a public place first so you have a chance to decide if you feel comfortable being with them. Just grabbing a drink or bite top eat somewhere is a great way to break the ice and get a feel for your playmate.
     

  3. Practice safe diapering - Don't let your nervousness or excitement keep you from following your normal skin care routine. The extreme wetting and/or messing that some DL's engage in during playtime makes proper cleaning and skin treatment all the more important. Clean yourself (or your partner) well at each diaper change. NEVER put a dry diaper over soggy smelly skin!
     

  4. Safe Words & Sex - Your short question doesn't give me enough of an idea as to what your plans are. Just in case sex and other fetishes are to be involved (and for the benefit of others reading) I give this advice. If you are going to practice any form of submission (Bondage, spanking, etc.) do have a safe word in case your partner's limits are higher than yours. If sex is to be involved, practice safe sex!

Good luck! I hope you found the right playmate for you!

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