Dear Daily Diapers Letter with Answer

Dear Daily: 

     I love wearing diapers and have for a long time. There are certain times though while wearing them that I kind of ask myself what I'm doing. Why are you wearing diapers like a baby? I even go to the extreme sometimes to throw my diapers out after that and then later have the urge to have them back, so I go buy more. I don't know if something is wrong with my self-conscious or what. I have not had a lot of courage to let anyone know about my diaper fetish, except for an adult babysitting service I once went to for a weekend. If you have any suggestions on what I can do to keep me focused on wanting diapers I would greatly appreciate it.

Michael H.

Dear Michael H.,

     I've gotten a lot of letters lately about guilt and shame in diaper wearing. Let me assure you: It's perfectly normal. As children we are programmed by our parents to see diapers as a bad thing. (Don't you want to use the potty like a big boy?) We're also trained at an early age to not wet or mess on ourselves and are told that doing so is "dirty" and something only a baby would do.  I don't know of a diaper-lover that hasn't thrown all their diapers away at one time or another, only to regret it when they have to replace everything. I have a medical need for diapers and I have done it. (In my case throwing out all the specially-made and fun items I had, trying to force myself to wear plain, boring and uncomfortable diapers strictly for need.) 
     The bottom line is that if wearing diapers is something you like to do, and you feel it helps you to be a better person in your day to day life, then don't worry about it! 

     On the other hand, if you feel like wearing diapers makes you a bad person, and you don't really want to do it... then I would recommend you see a therapist about it, like you would for any compulsion you wanted to get rid of.

    Finally, if diapers is such a compulsion that it prevents you from living a normal life, then you should definitely seek advice from a professional. No fetish or lifestyle should control you... but just about any fetish (that isn't harmful to others) can be a part of a normal life.

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