lordmole

I replied here a few weeks ago, but apparently it got lost in the clean up. Anyway, I'm from Belgium too.

I'll add to that, I've been to a party friday night, nobody noticed, except those who knew I was wearing right there and then, those who know I wear, but don't know when, didn't notice either. Someone even picked me up by my buttocks, and even she didn't notice, or didn't say anything, so really, people really won't notice (unless you poop it of course =P). I've worn them to work too, same story there (except for the picking up).

So I have a friend that knows about my diapers. And she knows I like being punished. She punished me today because I didn't listen to her yesterday and made me wear A LOT of diapers just now. I4m wearing ten at the moment and it's not really funny. It's extremely bulky and near impossible to walk. Strangely enough, it's really fun to do though.

Hah, reminds me of a couple of years ago. We were playing a game where someone says: "I've never done before." And if you have, you have to drink. Well anyway, someone said: "I've never used a bottle to masturbate." And I drank, people around me were quite dumbfounded but well, since then they knew I was quite weird. Anyway, a lot of my friends know I wear diapers by now, and they don't really have problems with it. One of my exes scolded me for being too extreme though, but what do I care, if that's her opinion then that's her problem.

I have gotten no message telling me the site is harmful (I'm pretty sure it can't touch me, as my browser won't even allow sites to run scripts without my permission. Plus, my OS doesn't support .exe files), but I've noticed nothing malicious, however I'm not certain. AND the site is absolutely terribly constructed.

Oh, I'd like to say that if I seem to be harsh to someone: 'sorry'. I get a bit carried away in discussions and I don't really mean it ^^.

1 Yes I know even guys can get it. 2 I clearly made an analogy with allergies. It's not because it's harmful to a (relatively) small number of people, that it's generally very harmful. Also, we were discussing tampons, not toxic shock syndrome. Please read in context. And last (note the underlined word):

I have heard of it. In fact, I know too much of it, for a guy anyways. And besides the few people who suffer from this syndrome because of tampons, no real harm is done. And isn't that a bit like saying citrus is extremely harmful, because a number of people is allergic to it? Same could go for milk or any other product. And different materials don't really matter, it's the effect that is the same (absorbancy of fluids) and that's important here.

Aka, like a tampon. A lot of women use tampons too. While it is not really healthy, it's not extremely harmful either. Just don't do it from prolonged periods of time, and make sure you drink enough to replenish the lost moisture.

Senseless violence is a whole other thing. I'm not against violence because for one, we can't solve everything without violence, sometimes you just need to fight it out, and second, we wouldn't appreciate peace, if there weren't any violence. (no yin without yang). Second, I never said we invented a non-lethal gun first. We invented them. Don't read between my lines, there's nothing there. Thirdly, I'm not dangerous. Not at all, I even let myself get beat up, I don't do violence, except maybe for fun (and I do mean martial arts with this). Indeed, non-lethal force shouldn't be used to shut someone up either, but at least the person in question can still say something without being afraid to be killed. Fifth, I've never even fired a gun, and I don't plan to either. Why would I ever need it? I don't even drive a car yet, simply because I don't need to. And last, no, I don't get along well with society. It's annoying. It forces me to listen to (IMHO) terrible music, with too much bass that hurts my ears and sometimes more. It looks funny at me if I'm out in a dress, or if I'd go out in a diapers, it tells me I can't wear the pants I like, because it's for skinheads, or the shoes I like, because they're for hiphop-people. I don't give a damn, I wear what I want. Like my mom this afternoon: "That movie is for children." Okay, I think i've said everything now. I could've started a new thread, but I was replying to several messages and it would be easier to reply here.

I live in Belgium. We invented/build non-lethal guns. You can shut someone up with those too. Also, I have something against all lethal guns, not just those that are legally carried. I shouldn't have to worry someone might shoot me.

Then he has even less reason to 'flash' it. That is, after all, threatening someone, and if I'm not mistaking, that is not a legal act. I'm very much against guns, I'm not at all against violence, but often, I would love to tell someone what an asshole they are for any number of reasons (from parking there car on biking roads to almost driving me over, and I don't because they might have a gun or a knife and wouldn't hesitate to kill me.

And you feel proud about that? I don't even want people walking around with a gun, why do you walk around with one? Can't handle your problems without violence (whether it only be suggestive or really physical) ? Honestly, I thought people wanted peace, yet there are so many walking around with a weapon and killing people like it's nothing. Don't be a part of it, please. Well, that not really fair is it? People wear bathing suits, swimming trunks or bikini's on a beach. This man was wearing more, be it a diaper or not, and yet he was arrested. No offense intended here, but that isn't exactly right. While he could have put on something over his diaper, people don't really put anything under their swimming clothes either. So I don't see a good reason why they could actually have arrested him. People just don't want to be confronted by 'abnormalities'.

Well, I'm all for hugs, a bit too much. I hug everybody as much as I possibly can, it gets on peoples nerves, so I'm always holding, but it's still annoying sometimes. But of course it's not only annoying for them, it is for me too, because they have no idea how much i'm already holding back. Luckily, I have a lot of good friends who accept me for who I am. Heck, when one came to sleep over, I still slept in my dress and a diaper, and he was ok with that. And well, the ultimate dream is someone who I can actually spend the rest of my life with, and who lets me be who I am and hopefully participates, even if it's only occasionally. It's very important I get to hug her a lot though, I couldn't live without that.

I'd go for number one. I hate it when I asked people to decide for me and they say: they're all good. Hence the direct answer ^^ .