nappyboymids

@InD - for some reason I can't see the photos in the posts you mention but perhaps that's just me.

As for my cath, it actually only has the one bulb, the one that sits in the bladder - for me that seems to hold it in place.  This may be because the cath is actually pretty long - the end is only an inch or two from the end of my penis, and the draining holes only an inch from the end - but as the nerves all seem to be right at the head of the penis I still know when I'm peeing.

I've now reinserted the cath, without the string and it's much more comfortable - and I'm experiencing the incontinence I've always wanted; sometimes a vague dribble, sometimes something more, totally unpredictable, totally uncontrollable.  I don't know how long it will work for - as I said before, a long ride on the bike moved it out, and I suspect it's something to do with a firm seat and riding position.  Anyway, I'll let you know how I get on - for now I feel a pretty constant drip :-)