Diseased88

Does anyone want to coordinate a meetup?

Of course! I’ll be dressed appropriately for the walk, I should have specified that. My bad. My initial intent was ethical public humiliation but the more I thought about it the more it became a method for me to overcome my own shame involving my incontinence. Thank you for the advice!

Thanks DD, that means a lot 💕

Just to add, my mother was loudly talking about my diapers during our New Year’s party and I absolutely hated how I felt, I felt embarrassed and frustrated because of the stigma incontinence brings and I genuinely believe being an advocate will be good for me to get over how that made me feel. I want to tell my story so people who feel like she made me feel know they’re not alone. I don’t want to feel like I’m going to “get caught” anymore, it’s a medical condition and I’m sick of feeling like there’s something wrong with wearing diapers, even if I do like them.

Thank you Freta, I appreciate your candor and good advice. I guess I’m just nervous and wanted the community opinion, but you’re right, I don’t need permission to tell my story.

Okay, I hope this is the right forum, if not mods please move. Two things you need to know; I have MS, and I’ve lost control of my bladder and bowels, and I’m a DL that has a major exposure/humiliation kink. I’ve been thinking of ethical ways to engage in my humiliation kink and the thought of social media advocacy popped up. Basically orienting my posts to help spread awareness about MS and the toll it’s taken on me. I’m doing the ms walk again this year and seriously considering adding my diapered status to my posts to help with the stigma of incontinence and MS, March is MS awareness month so this isn’t out of the blue. Basically, I’m okay with everyone knowing I wear diapers (most of my friends and all of my family know) but I wanted to get the communities feedback because I’m afraid my intentions aren’t the purest either. is this okay? What do you think?

I have multiple sclerosis that causes dual incontinence, of course I have other symptoms too but it took a lot of tests to get diagnosed.

I made myself something similar in Google gemini, although I don’t think it’s shareable. The concept of an AI assistant for diaper training is very cool. is there anything I can help you with testing? I trained mine to treat it like a game with some dice rolls added in.

Lehigh county, Allentown here 😊 hi!

Hi, I’m not too far away haha. I’m just north of Allentown, I go to Bethlehem every once in a while.

I have had several previous attempts to untrain over the course of my life, all of which have led me to stop wearing. After the death of my father, I realized life was too short to not go for the things you want, 24/7 was one of many recent changes in my life. Under what circumstances did you decide to go into diapers 24/7? I have had several previous attempts to untrain over the course of my life, all of which have led me to stop wearing. After the death of my father, I realized life was too short to not go for the things you want, 24/7 was one of many recent changes in my life. How long have you been in diapers? 2 months, 67 days precisely Do you still own any underwear? If not, how long has it been since you owned underwear? No, about 3 months. I ramped up to 24/7 Do you use your diapers and the toilet, or do you use your diapers exclusively? Diapers exclusively Since starting 24/7, have you had to make changes or improvements in response to practical pressures you didn't foresee? e.g., switching diaper brands, changing up your wardrobe, etc.? Yes! I have recently lost a lot of weight and had to figure out a different diaper. The Confidry mediums were Waaaay too big on me, I switched to the megamax in smalls and am looking for a cheaper alternative Are there any circumstances under which you would definitely leave diapers? No Do you think you could easily leave diapers immediately, assuming for some reason you had to? No, I bedwet consistently and the last few days my confidence has been iffy. I still have control but it's starting to dribble a lot more now. If you are untraining: How long have you been untraining? 67 days How is your control right now? I had my first involuntary bowel movement yesterday. Bed wetting is hit or miss, but becoming more hit. My bladder feels different, I get these weird little spasms when I pee and sometimes it doesn't go out all the way. I'm using the 12 month guide method, so I'm not going to test my bladder control. If you haven't yet reached your untraining goals, what are they? 100% Bladder and bowel incontinence Did you have any continence issues before you started untraining? If so, do you think they were a factor in your decision? I was an unreliable bed wetter from previous attempts, and bowel control has always been a small issue for me. Yes, definitely. If your control now is definitely worse than it was when you started untraining, how does that feel? For example, if you never had bedwetting or fear wetting or messing accidents before and you have them now, how do you feel, or how have you felt, about it? It is definitely worse. Coughing and sneezing will cause me to pee or mess myself, when I'm hydrated properly I don't really pee, I just dribble, and bedwetting has become much more common, though I do still sometimes wake up needing to pee, I don't move until I do. Do you want to regain lost continence? Have you tried to regain lost continence? How did it go? From previous attempts I regained my continence, with the exception of bedwetting. I would wet the bed about once or twice a month before I restarted untraining Is your incontinence in your medical records? If you're comfortable sharing, how is it described? Peripheral Neuropathy, I actually just had this conversation not too long ago. It's medical jargon for "uhh, idk" lol Do you think that if you tried, you would be able to leave diapers over any timescale? Right now, yeah, but in the future I don't think so, not without seriously retraining. Additional Information Cost is a major factor. I cannot go without diapers, so that being said, budgeting has been a major rework. I just had to make a decision because I noticed I was running low. Don't discount price.

I'm working a manufacturing job right now, 12 hour shifts, with a lot of physical activity, and (re-) beginning diaper dependency training has been on my mind a lot. I'm compensated pretty well with what I do, but it just isn't feasible to be diapered at this job. I have a college education I'm not using (Computer Technician), but to keep this broad, I'd like to get some feedback from the community regarding occupations that would be ideal for being diaper dependent, that only require a high school diploma or equivalent, that pay roughly $12-14/hour.

Thirty one years old and I feel like a failure. I just can't manage to stay employed at one place long enough to grow professionally, and it feels like I'm constantly starting over in the "no experience needed" category for employment. I have a college degree, and I have a lot of experience doing everything from kitchen work, security, IT, warehouse, production, maintenance, construction, sales, retail, etc. I think the longest place I've ever worked was 3 months. Just constantly hopping around, making a bit of cash, and then losing all motivation to show up. I'm typing this at home when I should be at work. Everywhere I go I get complimented on my work ethic. I'm a no-nonsense, hard-working employee when I'm there, but after a bit I just get burnt out and stop showing up. Temporary gigs are the only jobs I've ever successfully completed and parted ways without burning bridges. The last time I had a steady job I stuck to for a long period of time was a lifetime ago in the army, and that was only because I literally couldn't quit (without being sent to prison!). Money has been extraordinarily tight lately, and I just don't know what to do. Well, that's not true, I know what to do, it's just doing it that becomes the problem. The cherry on top is just how ungrateful I feel I'm being with so many people unemployed during the coronavirus pandemic, and I've literally got people begging me to go to work. You can save your judgement, I don't think anyone could say anything right now that would make me feel worse than I already do.

Hey, fellow bedwetter here, I'm in the pocono's, but I used to live in Allentown, not too bad of a drive. Love me some Dry 24's.

You trusted her enough to have children with her but didn't tell her about the diapers? Jeez, well, the past is the past. How was your relationship before the big reveal? I'm not calling you a liar but were things really that great before you told her? How did telling her play out? Have you thought about any quid pro quo? Maybe there's something she likes that you can use to ease her into diapers. Honestly I would advise dropping the diaper thing right now and focus on getting her comfortable with you again, then introduce what you want slowly, keeping her as the focal point. (Graphic story, but this worked for me: when I was introducing my ex to diapers I gave her oral and set the mood just right, made sure everything was the way she wanted it, with the only exception being the diapers. Make the time 99% about her pleasure, and the 1% something you want to introduce). Take it slow and don't push too hard, but this is really something you should have done a long time ago.