DiaperedProf

And I cannot stress how correct BidC300 is in his post. His comments apply to all marriages and relationships, not only ones involving diapers.

"One thing leads to another" is not habit. Habits are things you engage in consistently and and usually on a long-term basis. "One thing leads to another" indicates change. Habits don't change without deliberate self-directed control over one's behavior. You've confused two different things. I was simply saying that through a process of deliberate self-directed control over one's behavior, you can change your brain for the better or worse. The overall point is that OP has changed his brain for the worse and my posts were simply a way to say, "Hey you can fix this if you want. You can actually use your thoughts and behaviors to heal your brain." Is that simple enough for you?

The ab/dl

Neuroscientist/professor here, DL, some AB lately, married, together 13 years. Reading your post reminds me a lot of my relationship with my wife although, she has known for most of our time together. I have never really had to hide it, but we have had many arguments over the topic. Two suggestions I can make to you is:

No joke, this happened to me. Being put into diapers was the punishment for not taking a nap at the pre-K I attended in Houston, TX. When another kid and I were not taking our nap the teacher came over and asked me if I wanted to be diapered. I naturally resisted because diapers are for babies. After the teacher left, the other kid looked at me and said, "it's not that bad." The rest is history. I'll never forget that moment.

No matter what issue you face with your SO, the best thing to do is turn towards each other instead of away. Even to us here on this forum. Turning towards your SO includes what Wakko said above, but also approaching her to talk through life. Engage her and you will be rewarded many times over. In the process, don't forget about her and everything will be fine.

Molicare Super Plus are indeed some of the best. Personally, an elastic waistband would put them at #1. As for the wellness, I recently ordered a sample and received defective ones. First, the elastic on the inner leg wasn't there on the left side on both samples. Also, on the inside of the back (the part that would be touching your lower back), it was as if sand was just underneath the plastic. It was like wearing sandpaper. In the company's defense, I contacted them and received 2 more samples within 3 days. They were still a little rough in the same area, but no where near the same as before. Also, the inner elastic was fixed. It was simply a manufacturing glitch, which all companies experience from time to time.