I talked with my wife about it and she reacted just as I expected. She is very accepting of me and my diapers, but in this scenario, she's embarrassed about being associated with diaper-wearing because its a public(ish) scenario. She knows that the nightly wetting is a thing of the past - and also that my primary reason for wearing now is psychological. She did acknowledge that I always wear/wet when I'm on drugs for a migraine or whatever - but also kind of just pushed that aside. She also brought up the fact (and it is fact) that for my last surgery, I had more issues with retention than incontinence. So anyways, I'm not sure what will happen. I want to go ahead and wear because I do think there is real possibility I will wet, the docs office is expecting it anyways so the cat is out of the bag, and I also will be more relaxed when in the surgery office because of it. Hopefully she'll be able to get over it and act like it's normal when it comes to it -- God knows I'll be acting normal. Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk