I was not sure how to handle that situation but I was wearing diapers before my son was born. Once he was born we kept wondering if he would have the same problems. He was born 11 weeks early but eventually seeing me in a diaper did not phase him. I remember one time when both me and my son were standing in just a diaper with my mother-in-law and she made a comment about "looks like we both need to be changed". People who are close to me know that I wear a diaper and why. It all depends on how you will feel in a diaper around your child. If you are relaxed it will not bother him/her but if not then it will be a problem.