I was a periodic bedwetter until about the age of 12, then right about then is when I was wetting every night and heavily. Prior to that I was wearing Goodnites, but then I went to depends diapers about 14 yrs old. Then once those started failing I was brave enough and wise enough to start buying my diapers online. Initially it was Molicares and they weren't a good fit, then I found Abenas, and have been using them ever since. My patents didn't find out until about 18, when my mom stumbled upon my diapers in my room. To back track I was really good at buying and hiding my own diapers since I had a Pharmacy and a Post Office close by. I was so scared that my family would reject me for my bedwetting that I did most of my laundry, and bought my diapers with my allowance(mom would always ask how I spent my allowance so quickly). When I started ordering online I used prepaid cards and a PO box. Worked out great! There were several times where I almost got caught. But found out when my mom found my diapers, that It would've been ok if I was caught. Now back on track. When my mom did find my diapers (I still had Goodnites too which is what she found) she was upset. I just say there like a rock. I'm sure she was thinking I had a kid since an 18 year old had something that looked like pull ups in his bedroom. So I told my mom in one long runon sentence my story. She was cool with it! Talk about a sigh of relief. I was just over reacting. She said if I would have told her much sooner that she would have helped me. She would bought all my diapers so I didn't have to spend my allowance. She was really understanding as a mom should be. I still have accidents to this day but not as bad anymore. It started becoming less frequent when I turned about 24. I'll add more to this when I get a chance. Oh also I went to the doctors about it initially, but I'll add that later. What a story.... Ask anything ill let ya all know.