1. Sit in it an mush around?
Yes. I love the feeling of a large load squishing between my butt cheeks.
2. Avoid any contact with the stuff loaded into your pants for as long as possible?
Nope. (see #1)
3. Immediately begin self-loathing and figure out how, when and where you are going to get yourself cleaned up?
Nope. I consider pooping a part of wearing diapers. If I'm going to wear, I might as well wet AND mess too.
I also like the feeling of when it's coming out and sitting in it and squishing around.
4. Decide how long you can possibly stay in the mess, enjoy it, and deal with cleanup way later on down the line?
Yes. I'm afraid of getting a rash. I usually change within an hour or so. It really depends on how firm it is.
5. Rue the fact you've pooped your pants, and beat yourself up for being such a "baby" and have messed yourself?
Nope. (see #3)
6. Enjoy every moment of a favorite activity, spend the time you can, and then plan for clean-up as you can, when you can and return to life again.
Yes. (see #4)