babyjames77

From York, always open to chat. Message me sometime.

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Thank you for ur response. You will find more info on http://www.babyjunior.co.uk/events.html but contact me for details. And i had not thought about fetlife thank u. There is already a few signed up and more interested so just let me know. *hugs* James

Hi to all in the UK and beyond. On Saturday the 2nd June 2012 at 2pm, there will be an ABDL meet up in Leeds in the UK. All are more than welcome and we have had a great response so far with other comunity members from other areas. For more information Contact James: babyjames77@hotmail.co.uk

Hi to all in the UK and beyond. On Saturday the 2nd June 2012 at 2pm, there will be an ABDL meet up in Leeds in the UK. All are more than welcome and we have had a great response so far with other comunity members from other areas. For more information Contact James: babyjames77@hotmail.co.uk

I have my "little" side and I am very comfortable with the fact. However i have learned new things about myself recently, When I'm "little" I have to be around the dominant person (whoever that may be). But what I have come to realise recently is, whenever i am interacting with another "little" i seem to get the satisfaction & automatically jump into the role of the "daddy". Now I have heard the word switch bounded around and yes it fits, but not to me i have my moments as a "little" with all the joys and items associated with it. When I'm around others that have a "little" side I find myself wanting to be there for them and taking on that role, and the idea of switching does not come into the equation. So in short, being "little" with another, in a play situation when we both assume the same role is fine, but in my mind i think a "little" assuming the role of Mummy/Daddy on me does not seem right. I my self would prefer to take on that role. I would say I'm quite confused by the whole thing, just when I thought i had figured out my role something sneaks up and changes my views. What does this mean? Where does it lead me? And what does it actually make me?

you make for a very good point & thank u for taking your time to comments. Things are a little better this week and have calmed a little, she has seen me wearing and have spent every night in them next to her. so far so good (for me) only time will tell.

First of all ABG is a typo AB is what I meant to put . must have big fingers Thank you all for your comments so far it is much appriciated, and the advice is good. When i say i want to come out i don't mean screaming it from the rooftops, I just want to explore more of my desires with someone els. Last night I informed my partner, it went better than i thought! however after a lot of ribbing from her we had a more serious chat and have come to an agreement. she asked to to put one on for her to see what i was talking about (really embarressing) after a few more humiliating jibes she accepted. As long as i don't take the proverbial piss (she said that not me) she is happy to keep a secret as long as i am honest with her, which seemed to be the only thing she was upset about, the fact i had taken so long to tell her. We are close and my fear of her finding out may have clouded my judgment. It is early days im aware of this but i feel quite liberated at the moment and will have to see what time will bring. I will update how things are going soon Thanks folks

I have always known i'm an AB. This is where the problem starts, its only me that knows. So i'm looking for advice i have no AB/DL Friends would like to get to know some. I have been in a relationship for 11 years now (not married) i'm 34, and my desire to be an ABG is getting stronger, I don't know what to do, my partner would not be understanding I know that (subtle hints have been dropped). so do i carry on keeping a secret that is screaming to get out? or do i risk loosing everything? I know what I want but is it the right thing to do? Let me know what you think. James.

i'm in york feel free to contact me be nice to chat

i'm in york get in touch if you ever want to chat or meet (i've never met anyone befor)

Ok I did not tell my mum as such she just found my nappies (twice!) not a great response the first time, and i regretted the second. maybe if i had told her about my AB side she may have been a little more understanding, but thats highly unlikely. I am not saying your mum would react in the same way but you would have to be careful as it could turn out to be a bad idea. Thats my side of the story hope it helps.

Hi im in York but would travel if needed. i've never met or really spoken to another AB/DL befor but i would like to please let me know. James

Hmm Where to start i'm new obviously. i'm James 34 been a secret AB for a long time, and want more so i'm looking to make friends and maybe come out of the proverbial closet. i have been in a relationship for 11 years and she does not know i'm not sure she would be too amused (dilema) but who knows what the future holds. I just know i dont want to hide it any more. Any help on this subject would be great Thanks XXX