As a boss I feel the need to weigh in here. If you want to wear diapers to work, I don't care. If they affect your productivity or are otherwise affecting your performance, then we have a problem. I had a private meeting with a young woman one day about her performance, and she confessed that she was wearing a butt plug as part of some sorority bs, and it caused her to be distracted all day. That was unacceptable. If you can do your job and enjoy being diapered too, great. If not, leave your fetish at home.