I do agree he is a very bad image for all of us. There is no one person who is perfectly suited for representing the ABDL community but I can tell you with absolute certainty people are likely to view an AB in a negative way after seeing Stanley on TV in either of his two shows. People are more likely to understand, be less judgemental, and maybe even relate when the person they are watching is mainstream and relatable. I'm not bashing Stanley in his poor decision making, I'm trying to make a point that AB's must be portraited as close to "normal" as possible to those who, prior to watching the show, were never aware of the ABDL lifestyle.