I don't think you are being paranoid at all...when I first started wearing diapers in public I felt like everyone could tell I had a diaper on...just wear loose fitting clothing to hide your diaper...as for the crinkle crowd noise drowns the sound out...I think going to a different town is a good idea it will make you less nervous about running into someone you know...In summary, wearing diapers is a thrilling experience and I hope you enjoy wearing in public...