Because any of us are really going to believe someone who has no profile information. Leave it up to an admin to call troll or not.
Moving on...
It's great you're being so open and supportive with him. I know that it means a lot to him. My girlfriend wasn't as open as you are but she's trying, and that's all anyone can ask. As long as you still love him that's all that matters.
Well, if you need them. As long as you totally explain everything that's happened like you just did, I don't see a ton of issue unless she's really not understanding of your needs. Just be calm and explain everything the best you can to her. Good luck.