Snugglebear

The timing really depends on the relationship. If it's just a fling maybe no need to bring it up. If it's something more enduring honesty is the best way to go. My situation is different than yours as I talked with my wife about my DL desires while we were dating so she was already OK with diapers when we got married.

I think the fact she once bought a colouring book and

I admit I have a wonderful wife. That being said, open, honest,

I was most recently changed by my wife last night. We're

If you'd like some constructive advice then might I suggest writing

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So, I had an absolutely horrible day at work the other day and came home very stressed, very grouchy and all in all in just a bad mood. When I walked in the door I had already texted my wife, I didn't want her to get the grouch without some warning. She grabbed her coat, told me she had a surprise for me and told me to get back in the car. She then proceeded to take

I was speaking with Laurie at Rearz and they are a special run print done by Comficaire. My wife absolutely loves me in them.

Simple, communicate your desires, give her time to assimilate the conversation, be supportive and ultimately accept she may not be comfortable with your request. You can't change someone else's comfort level; you can only create a facilitative environment. Snugglebear

People who want the truth may want to take a look at snopes.com regarding the origin if this fad. Although it is true the fad originated in prisons the assertion it has to do with rape or sexual availability is incorrect. Rather it came to be from ill fitting prison uniforms. Let's try not to further propogate myths Snugglebear

Lying about lying doesn't some how make the original lie better. I agree with taking things slowly but adding another layer of lies isn't a solution. Think of how upset your girlfriend will be if she discovers this new set of lies. "Truth" shouldn't be a deceptive action in an attempt to re-write history to suit your own ends. Personally (take that for what you will) either you value truth or you don't. Snugglebear

Can an admin please close this thread and remove the under age poster. Amost 18 isn't the same as being 18. Thank you.

The first thing I'd want my significant other to do would be to talk with me rather than random people on the Internet. Sure you'll get a bunch of different ideas from people on here but that doesn't mean they'll turn on your boyfriend. Asking online will 100% get you the fantasies and desires of the people responding but it won't necessarily work for both you and your boyfriend. Remember, the person who best know what excites your boyfriend is him. Snugglebear

I have a travel bear that my wife gave me four years ago and he always travels with me. She doesn't let me leave for the airport, cottage or anywhere without him. My female colleagues love him and usually want a picture whenever we go to a new city. I wouldn't have a melt down without him but I certainly wouldn't be happy. Snugglebear

You may hear people suggest that you write a note to explain things. As much as I believe in "to each their own" I REALLY don't advise that route. A note can leave your partner adrift and cause them to turn online for information. Personally I'd rather be there to explain my kink than let some random website do it when it may not be accurate of my desires but instead reflect someone else's fantasies. Second (to me) a letter looks like you're embarrassed about the topic. Confidence can go a long way in turning a potentially difficult conversation into an easier one. Take some time when both of you aren't in a rush and have a frank and honest conversation. Lay out the facts, be calm, be ready to answer questions and above all be open to a two way dialogue. Although the conversation will discuss diapers it is more about having an honest relationship than diaper wearing. Best of luck. Snugglebear and Raccoon