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To the OP:  I can then conclude from scriptures that the entire AB/DL lifestyle is sinful as well, since Paul wrote:

 

1 Corinthians 13:11

Remember the rules of the internet:
Women are men, men are boys, boys are pedophiles, and pedophiles are cops.

It's bad enough googling "women's adult diaper" You see some freaky stuff.

The other night I was wearing just a shirt and a diaper, and the shirt was long enough to just about cover the diaper completely, unless I bent over even slightly.  I really like to dress that way, and that night I was even so bold as to go outside after dark to turn off the sprinkler hose.  Felt quite liberating, actually.  I am quite certain that nobody saw me, and I would not have even wanted that.  But just to be out in the cool night air in just a diaper and a shirt, words can't really describe it.

Know what I mean?

I would think that there would be an opportunity here to raise children with a healthy understanding of the purpose of diapers.  If they learn from a young age that even adults wear diapers from time to time for certain reasons, it can help remove the shame and taboo that is often associated with wearing diapers after being toilet trained.  They have the opportunity to see them as simply clothing, and nothing more.

But this would be a fine balancing act.  Children often seek to imitate adults, and in such cases would likely want to keep wearing diapers themselves.  Perhaps during the toilet training phase, you could lead by example by showing that you too can live without diapers.  Let them know that you are patient with them while they develop their own ability to use the potty, but reinforce that it is important to you that they eventually demonstrate this ability, even if they want to wear diapers for the sake of wearing diapers.  Let them have the security if they need it, but encourage them to get to the place where they can live independant of diapers.  Then, if they continue to show an interest in wearing but are able to use a bathroom day and night, lay some ground rules, guidelines, and limits to this.  Let them know that they must keep themselves clean and will need to take over that responsibility.  Let them know that diapers cost money, and there will be limits to what they can use.  Let them know that you would prefer them only to wear around the house, and not at school, church, or when visiting friends.  And let them know that if others learn of this, that there may be a wide spectrum of possible reactions, and how to deal with it.

DK Enterprises is new, better website is probably still in development, but no one wants to sit on a warehouse full of diapers they could be selling.

If that is the case, then they certainly don't have very good business sense.  If they had properly raised capital for this venture, and set about a sound business plan, they could afford a professional site from the get go.  Marketing is a big part of business (trust me, I know,) and they flopped big time on that one.  So that gives me an uneasy feeling about the legitimacy of this whole operation.

Also, who in their right bloody mind goes about making an incontinence product targeted at older kids that is cute and babyish?  P&G and the other big leaders that make goodnites and such are going out of their way to make them appear like normal underwear, and those are targeted for even younger children.  However DK Enterprises has targeted both incontinent youth and the ABDL scene with a single product.   If I was 12 years old and incontinent, DL or not, I'm sure my parents would steer way clear of a site and a product like that.

DD, I am not just uneasy about DK Enterprises, I am also uneasy about your defense of them.  This whole thing does not sit well with me, and I am close to boycotting ABU for good.  I know you try to stay neutral in these things, but c'mon, open your eyes.  Something is not right here.

An additional thought:

One would be foolish to wait until they had a warehouse stock full of product to begin marketing it or soliciting it to suppliers.  If they began at the mid to late stages of R&D, they would have lots of time to either find a sales contract with a reputible distributor, and/or publish a professional web site.  DK Enterprises has the feel of a small time ABDL company interested in the ABDL market.  The QD website has a look and feel that if targeted to ABDL markets with an adult model would be typical of upstart ABDL companies.  But if it wants to promote itself to a broad market of incontinent users who are unfamiliar with the ABDL scene, they have made a very poor attempt, IMO.

I don't like it.  Why are they unable (or unwilling) to solicit an incontinance product supplier to sell their product as a legitimate child/youth incontinence product?  Why insted do they put up an amateur looking website that makes my skin crawl when I view it?  I really like the look of the diaper, as well as their SDK and Cushies line (not so sure I like the Fabine yet,) but this kind of thing makes me not want to buy any of their products, and to lobby suppliers like B4NS and social sites like DD to boycott their products entirely.

Tell him it is a box of "none of your god damn business!"     

So I just stopped for lunch at the local toasted sub sandwich variety outlet to grab my favorite prime rib sandwich deal.  I placed my order, then went over to pay the lady.  As I was swiping my card, I watched the teenage boy who was to handle my food when it came out of the oven, as he walked to the sink, reached in an took an old soaking rag, carried it over to the food prep counter dripping wet, wipe of a small spot, and carry it back to the sink.  This left a noticable wet spot on the counter, and not just water steaks, but puddles.  His gloves he was wearing were also noticably soaked and looked unsightly for handling food.  Seeing that my sandwich was just about ready, he took a wax paper wrap out and placed it over the wet spot.

"You aren't going to handle my food with those gloves, are you?"  I asked.  His response was something to the effect of, "yeah, I was.  Why?"

I pointed out that he had just handled a soaking wet rag from the bottom of the sink, and his gloves were still soaked.  The lady taking my payment stepped in, "We don't mind chaning gloves for you, that is not a problem," as if to say "if it makes you happy."

I said, "he also left a whole bunch of water on the counter where he is to place my food."

"I can wipe that for you," same tone, if it makes me happy.  "But just so you know that cloth came from a container of food safe sanitizer, so there is nothing to worry about."

"Look," I said, "I've worked in the food service industry before.  You just don't serve food off a wet counter with soaking gloves, even if it is food safe sanitizer.  The customer will always assume the worst, and in this case, I have."

She kept trying to reassure me, but I wasn't buying any of that.  I don't care if it is really the Vatican's holy water, I don't know where it came from and it disgusts me to think that it might be all over my food.  I am going to call the manager tuesday morning and complain.  Maybe even the health inspector.

If it actually holds the capacity they are claiming it will be worth the price.

Why not just strap a bucket of water between your legs?  This is just getting so extreme that it is rediculous.  I really don't see the purpose of a diaper that can hold 7lbs of fluid.

I also like how she identifies the warm safe feeling of wearing without instantly becoming an obsessed ABDL.

Don't let your ABDL fantasy mind read too far into it.

Umm, I thought my comment above was enough to express that I see a balanced approach to diapers from this girl, not a potential new ABDL convert.  You might want to check your assumptions about my "ABDL fantasy mind."

. . . we look at Christians and think intolerance.

  Seriously the first time I've ever heard someone say that!  And it's true, but not just that they are perceived as intolerant, but they have also earned their reputation.

Anyway, back on topic.  I would certainly hope that people whould be able to see a sex offender for what he is, and not what he wears.  However, since his detestible acts included, or rather revolved around the use of diapers with and on minors, it will be very hard for the public to distinguish a pedophile from an ABDL in light of this.  I really think it is time for the community to come out of the closet and speak up for who and what we are.  If we just sit back and let these sick people make headline after headline and complain they give us a bad name, then we are gonna have a bad name.

Please do not do this.  Nurses and caregivers are compassionate people who want to help people who cannot care for themselves.  We do not need to take action that will damage their trust in the general public.

Oh, and yes, you run a high risk of being prosecuted.

Again it comes down to not WHAT you see, but WHY you are seeing it.  If you are going about your business and happen to be in a diaper and it happens to become visible, most people will not notice anything more than that.  But if you are prancing around, or even trying to not be seen so that if you are seen you are "caught" and you get your kicks, there is an uncomfortable vibe that people will notice about the situation, and they will find it strange and wierd.  And it is when the public is uncomfortable with something that it finds strange and wierd that there is a potential for the ABDL community to get a bad rap.

I don't understand how the OP is not clear to some people.  It seems pretty clear to me.