Baby keiff,
I do not wish to put anyone down here keiff but it appears that you may be slipping away from reality here. Lets take a look at your first paragraph. It starts . My 12 year niece chose to wear a pullup on her confirmation day. Ok though rather bazaar it is possible that it could happen. Then you go on to say that a number of her class mates did the same thing. That is where it gets hard to believe. I don't think that even one in 50 parents would allow there kid to wear a diaper in this case much less a number of her class mates.
Then, why would your nieces even think of diapers if they are not involved with them such as wetting the bed. This should never even entered their mind.
You know keiff you have to realize that anyone with an IQ at least in the double digits would find this first paragraph hard to swallow.
If you can not see what I'm getting at here buddy you need to check and see if your well is too close to the septic tank.
Again Baby keiff I'm not trying to start a war here just understand that if you wright something in here you need to say things that are at lease feasible. your credibility depends on it. peace out.