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Objectively if you are doing the same thing an incontinent person would do if they were out and about then it doesn't seem to be an issue, at least from an outsiders perspective (IE someone else in your locker room). As far as your reasons behind it I think you have to ask yourself if the motivation matters to you and if it does alter your behavior accordingly. As a thought exercise what would you do if you woke up tomorrow, still entirely 'mostly DL' you, but with real incontinence added in - would going to the gym, changing, etc be acceptable to you? As far as keeping the diaper all white I tend to do this myself, although I don't see prints any different from having prints on boxer shorts - I'd change in the locker room with no reservations with a print on my undershorts even were the print somewhat juvenile (Snoopy and woodstock FTW!) But despite seeing them in the same light, a print diaper comes too close to feeling like 'fetish' wear and in my personal morality becomes unsuitable for something like the gym. Also continuing the thought exercise how would you feel about someone cross dressing in the gym, or someone wearing a chastity cage, or a gimp get up etc? While those aren't the same thing as a diaper as there is no equivalent 'incontinence' in that equation, that is to say there is nothing that makes it socially normative to wear a cage, cross dress, or wear a ball gag. I know my own inclination would be to think that behavior was in exceptionally poor taste and to keep that shit at home, so for me personally it becomes a matter of the golden rule (If I wouldn't like someone else doing it then I won't do it.). My personal rule is to conduct myself in a manner that would be normal for someone incontinent, socially, someone can understand what I am doing without feeling that I have involved them in something best left at home - for me that is what works and seems to be respectful of others. I'm sure others will have opinions of their own!

Not quite the same as no one is imposing a babysitter on me, but I have a sitter who watches me every 6 weeks or so. I have a pretty elaborate system in place - screen time rules, homework, chores from the chore chart, etc. I'm more of a middle who happens to be treated like I'm younger when it comes to care, but is treated more in line with my 'age' when it comes to entertaining myself, activities, etc. So she mostly does her own thing, knits or crochets, reads a book - watches TV she wants to watch while keeping an eye on me to make sure I follow the rules and don't burn the house down, diaper care and some other aspects are handled more in line with how you would handle a toddler - I am changed in the floor, have a sippy cup, if we go out I have to ride in the back seat and she checks my seatbelt, etc. As for the attractiveness angle etc, my sitter and I dated briefly in high school (about 35 years ago! *cry*) and while nothing ever came of it romantically, we remained good friends (we share a friend group). She is married, had kids, now grandkids, and her watching me is purely platonic. So I have always found her attractive in that sense that we dated - but it doesn't really enter into the sitter dynamic - I'm more a tween than a teen and wouldn't have the hots for the sitter at my age! But I would also be open to male sitter, at least from the perspective that as a kid you don't get a lot of input into who is selected to watch you, so that feels really authentic. All of that is not to say that my ageplay isn't sexual, I'm not claiming to be a non-sexual ABDL - but the particular attraction in ABDL/ageplay for me is a little more ego centric and not focused on my caregiver. I actually prefer my caregivers to be a bit detached and mercenary, like it's a job for them, as opposed to the way people want a mommy or daddy and then to be the center of mommy or daddies world - I'm a big kid and I don't want to be doted on.

I grew up w/ plastic pants or rubber pants as the term (despite them not being 'rubber' - that kind of inaccuracy bothers me - I'm very pedantic and think this should be a 2 strikes and you go to word prison law in effect. I likewise want to beat with a baseball bat anyone who says 'boxers' referring to boxer briefs) All that aside - something about 'plastic panties' is extra terrible for me - I think in part it's because it's so popular with sissies and that whole thing (no judgement on my part - you do you if that's your thing! this is my hang up) just skeeves me out big time. I am very intractable about the things I can relate with and understand and if it is outside my very narrow scope then I don't like it very much.

Yeah it does kind of look like tighty whities - esp with the 'waistband' line (which is what I thought when I first saw it) I also thought the binky was a goatee - didn't get it was a pacifier until I realized it was supposed to be a diaper he was wearing. I was a bit confused for a second, but then it sunk in that it was supposed to be a diaper. Funny strip though!

Most computers don't come with any manual. What do you want or need to know? The 'famous brand' sounds like it's a rebadged dell or hp or lenovo product - you can probably determine the exact real model from the serial number sticker. Is this a desktop or laptop?

If it were crinkle only these would be my absolute favorite - I buy them in plain blue - they fit me really well, and I love their sound, no complaints about performance, but I do wish they were thicker feeling and I find the odor control (and I am a wet's only kind of guy) to be really subpar. It's been a long time since I've had a diaper that smells of pee so quickly - enough so that I find pulling back the covers in the morning to be unpleasant. I can't think of a single other brand of diapers that behaves that way - so these are a daytime only diaper for me. That sounds like a lot of complaining, but the sound of the crinkle on these is worth it. Skin a str8up or a trest in this backsheet and I would have a dream diaper.

Happy birthday!

I have had dreams like this - I am usually looking for a restroom and they are out of order or too dirty (not unkempt - but dream logic dirty - think flickering lights, bugs, smeared walls - more like a bathroom from hellraiser or saw), when I finally find one and go I will wake up to find I have wet the bed.

The closest I have found from a pure plastic perspective are the cutieplusu diapers (I have only tried them in white and blue - not any of the prints - don't know if that changes the formulation) - they seem to have a very unique formulation of plastic I have not seen on other diapers and to me come closest to resembling old school 80's/90's diapers. That said they are not the best diapers in the world, but are pretty good - just not great (poor odor control even for just urine IMHO)

I will also jump in here and say Cutie Plus U are pretty noisy - as someone who is chasing the 80's Huggies and Pampers Dragon I am always on the lookout for that 70's/80's crinkle. Are cutieplusu there? Not quite, but they do have a better rustle than just about anything else - but that one aspect aside as much as I like their plastic, I wish the diaper were a bit better (especially on odor control - it's been forever since I had a diaper that couldn't mask urine odor - but these don't do a great job in my opinion) The cut is good for me, and overall I consider it an okay diaper with a best in class auditory experience (best you'll find these days anyways). I have heard others say the plastic has changed but I was wearing blue XL's which I purchased in November over the holidays.

Sorry to hear of your loss. Loosing pets is always so hard.

For me around 3 years old (1974 ish). My Mom says I was very uninterested in training and by the time I was going on three she was feeling a lot of pressure as three was old in those days for kids to be in diapers. She said that suddenly one day a couple of weeks or so before my third birthday I just 'got it' and had no accidents or anything, that it was like turning on a light switch, but she kept me in diapers for bed for a couple of weeks to make sure I was staying dry at night. As this was a time before disposables were common (or very good) I been in cloth and plastic pants mostly, but we had used disposables on car trips and such. So for those couple of weeks she wanted to use up the disposable diapers we had on hand, so that is what I wore to bed, and I loved it, I loved the way the tapes worked (weird eh? - but back then the tapes had a backing you peeled off like a bandaid and I remember my mom handing them to me to hold on to after she peeled them off so I could 'help') I remember being in bed and sticking my hand in my pjs and under my waterproof pants and loving the feeling of the disposable diaper. From this same time I have another memory of a morning waking up, and seeing the dust motes in the air in a shaft of sunlight coming in around my bedrooms curtains, It was the first time I ever had noticed something like that and I was amazed, I went to put my hand out from under my covers and drag it through the sunbeam, but when I did so I guess I moved my whole torso a bit and I was suddenly aware of the disposable diaper I was wearing. I laid there in bed with one hand in my pjs and the other hand trying to catch dust motes, the feelings were so raw, so intense, that it was like I was molded into 'me' right then and there. After a bit I got up and went to my parents bedroom door and knocked on it until my mom woke up and answered me. I told her I wanted changed and she was kinda mad at me for waking her up so early and wanting a diaper change. She told me in no uncertain terms that I was a big boy and that I didn't wear diapers during the day anymore. I remember feeling so very conflicted, I loved being 'a big boy' - I was always a little adult in some ways and hated to be treated like I was 'less than' by virtue of being young, but I wanted my diaper changed too. From that point forward I was always jealous of anyone else in diapers which included all my younger cousins, my parents friend's children who were younger than me, etc. I always pretended not like them, but I always made sure and watch them get changed if I could do so in a way that didn't seem obvious, and I noticed every diaper commercial on tv ever and loved them all.

I will be stopping by soon too.

Like so many others I gotta say this is not something to be cured anymore than liking broccoli or chicken. Can you like broccoli or chicken to much? Sure, but that isn't a problem with the broccoli or chicken, it's a problem with your impulse control. When I was young, and felt alone, and didn't know there were other people like me, then yea I thought I was defective. Now I'm older and a lot more accepting of me, and I wouldn't change this about me for anything in the world.

lol. Okay. Moar soon then if you folks want to waste more bandwidth