night0wl

I've always had issues with adult nappy sizes, and now they've just gotten worse! *sigh*

I am quite slim (29" waist, 36" hips), which means I should fit fine into most brands' "small" sizes, but being male means I usually need a bit more room in the crotch. This leaves me with two options:

a ) Wear the small sizes lower down.

b ) Wear "medium" sizes.

Neither solution is perfect. Wearing small sizes around my hips means being quite precise with tape positioning, and can lead to them slipping off when soggy The mediums are really too big for me, they fit up to like 40" waist! It is easier to get a snug fit with ample croth room but the excess of material means they usually leak anyway and are pretty hard to stuff into trousers (pants) comfortably.

I've always gone with solution a) using abena abri-form, once I know where to place the tabs to get a good fit they're perfect. I'm just finishing the last of my previous batch (which have lasted me for ages) and opened one of the brand new ones I got today. I noticed that the marked size range was 5cm wider (60-85cm, instead of 60-80cm) but yet oddly the nappies are actually smaller!!!

I can still get a decent fit but it's a little bit more fiddly than before. As if I don't have enough trouble with sizes, does anyone else have this problem?

I came across this not long after it was started in 2002 but I've never really seen it out there. This could be because I live in the UK. I saw it the other day as someones avatar on here and wondered if anyone has come across it in the "real world".

This is the symbol in case any one isn't familiar with it:
http://babypridestore.com/

Like most ABDLs I have had a lifelong fear of being "outed". That is until recently. When I was at Uni I ended up telling two people, pretty much by chance. The outcome of these events has changed my outlook on the whole thing.

The first was my (then) gf; she took it well, didn't flip out or act disgusted although she refused to have anything to do with it. I was fine with this, I was just glad that she accepted it. I would previously have expected this to be a complete disaster. I would have thought that would be the end of our relationship and that all our mutual friends (which at the time was everyone I knew at Uni) would know about it.

The second time was after my gf and I had split up. I told a female friend as part of a drunken bet. I knew this girl well and knew she was open minded enough to accept it, which she did. What I did not expect though was that this conversation actually led to a relationship, one which involved various forms of age play and nappies (Heaven!). Sadly this couldn't last due to circumstances in both our lives, but it was so worth it.

Since then I have pretty much lost the fear, I no longer care really within reason). Obviously I don't go around shouting it from the rooftops, or even purposefully starting conversations about it, but if the subject happened to arise, I'd probably say (unless I knew someone would definitely react badly). This has also led to me telling my best friend. We've known each other since we were 2yo, my fascination with nappies started when I was about 3yo and yet I only told him last year. It is immensely liberating to let go of something you've kept a secret for over 20 years.

However, I have read on here many horror stories of this sort of thing going wrong, or that liberating feeling fading like a novelty. I hope this doesn't happen, though I suspect one day I will say something to someone that I regret and think to myself "I should never have started this". Either way the truth is I cannot regret the fact that I have been able to truly open myself up to my closest friend and also had the pleasure of acting out my fantasies with a sexual partner. Given these benefits, would being completely "outed" be such a bad thing?

NOTE: While I hope this inspires others, I understand that my experience is only due to my circumstances. I would advise anyone thinking of telling friends or family to be very careful. I am lucky to have some very open minded friends, but there are still some people I will never ever tell, such as my entire family!

Hi Everybody,

Just wanted to say a quick "HELLO" here. I used to have an account years ago but forgot all my log in details
I've just set up a new account, boy things have changed quite a bit round here!