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Thank you! this is much more complete information than has been supplied from any other source I have seen.

I am considering opening a paypal account for a purchase that does not have any other options. My wife has an account but I want to keep this transaction private from her. My Question, If I open a separate account but use the same credit card and mailing address, are there trails similar to the amazon purchase history? I am not worried about receiving the item nor that it will show on the credit card statement.

I agree with sentiments stated above and even most of the conspiracy theories. I think there is a different motivation though for having the extensive kid designs all over the diapers and i notice that the designs have the highest color contrast near the front and back ends.I think the purpose is to keep adults from buying them as a pad for themselves! Many people have noted that the kid diapers are more absorbent than adult pads but cost less than half as much. By making them obviously baby diapers to anyone who might see them, the adult may be too embaressed to be seen in a baby product and spend a lot more for an adult medical product.

I guess it comes down to me feeling like I have a best friend and roommate that I hang out with.....not a lover or partner. And I want more from a relationship. The reason I've let it go so long is because she is a virgin, but despite that I don't get the total lack of intimacy. I'm confused, torn, and a bit depressed.

You are seeing clearly by her inaction what she really wants. While leaving feels cruel and an over reaction, i can tell you from experience that 40 years from now things will NOT be any better than they are now AND there will be plenty of times that are much worse. I was with a woman who initially was definitely more experienced and adventurous than myself but wanted to save intercourse for marriage. She shut down as things starting getting serious. After marriage she really shut down where if we were even a little intimate one night, for the next two weeks she would pick fights, be angry and go to bed either much later or earlier than i did to avoid any intimacy. I asked her years later about how her initial actions were so opposite her later ones; she said "because she thought boys expected it". I too have still the problem of not being able to communicate or work out anything with her. I was patient --way too patient. Whenever I disagreed with her at all, the fight instantly escalated on her part to a life or death issue that she had to win at any cost. She would literally do or say anything with absolutely no limits to get what she wanted in the present moment. I could never believe that she even realized what her words and actions were doing to the relationship. Years later I concluded that she knew exactly what she was doing and did not care. At one point she even said it was my fault because if I had stood up to her she would have backed down. (She may believe that but definitely not true based on some more casual encounters she has had.) For many years she worked out conflict by being a rageaholic until she got exactly what she wanted. So I stupidly stayed with her and even had kids together with all this unresolved. Now I am remembering all this and kicking myself for literally wasting my life. I am not exaggerating at all. In my life of denial, I literally wasted my life.

I too will leave any place that charges for tap water with a food purchase.

This would make an excellent changing table. I have seen a model similar to this in a store several years ago. It is much stronger and more stable than using a table.

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Regardless whether this is the right style or forum or whatever, I really appreciate and learn from you coming back and telling "the rest of the story". I remember when you were here previously and shared about looking at this (forum / lifestyle ?) as a means to overcome the problem of shy bladder. At the time I knew almost nothing about shy bladder and I learned by hearing your story. People talk about posters that disappear and nobody knows what happened to them or their problem. I did not understand the condition nor your hope that this "lifestyle" could teach your body but it did seem plausible as you explained it. Thanks for coming back to tell us how it worked out.

I am interested because this is about the optimum size mix for me and I have wanted to try these cloth diapers. Look in your in box on DD for a PM.

Thank you. That is how I understood it as well. Wifes plan allows it to pay for my expenses so I am SOL I want the HSA because the spending limits on her plan are becoming more limited.

Tangent but still a medical flex plan question.

If he gets a shy bladder and cannot go when first meeting you, use the baster to prime the pump by making his diaper a little wet. It is easier to go in a diaper that is a little wet than a totally dry one.

When my hose gets kinked slightly I feel an ache slowly develop that i do not

If you like Fabreeze, try Odoban. To me it smells like fabreeze but works better and is a LOT cheaper. Label says Eucalyptus scent.