Daddy Fred

This partic. point has fascinated me for quite some time. Yes it seems irrational, contradictatory and all the other descriptive words used.
I've realized very gradually that we all have a kind of "dual-personality", one we use to deal with the hum-drum everyday world, and another more primitive one where we 'enjoy ourselves'.
At first I thought this dual-aspect was confined to fetish people, then on further reflection I realized it also applies to more conventional people, but in a different way.
The final realization was that one's very core of personality, the person you THINK you are, your "ego" if you like, can actually transfer from one mode to the other, but at different times. A "switching" between modes if you like.
So your 'primitive-personality' can be as a woman when you are physically a man ("I'm a woman trapped in a man's body"), or a baby/infant ("I want to wear a nappydiaper and wet myself") or -- "I want to be under someone else's control completely", when actually I am a senior manager and I tell other people what to do all day.
Reactions welcome.
Daddy Fred.

Be prepared to travel....A LOT!
Daddy Fred.

Toddler Junior didn't come across like that to me at all.
The underlying feeling seemed to be "I'm fed up with being alone".
Not exactly unusual with this fetish, wouldn't you say?
Daddy Fred.

I really liked the posting by XyXy, it would seem he has introspected for some time to come to workable conclusions about sexuality,sex drive and choice of sexual object; it does seem to be a triumph of commonsense.
For a long time I've been convinced that "sex" (meaning the activity not the gender) is Mother Nature's little trick to ensure the continuation of the species. (Ever noticed how your own thinking processes can get so distorted and biassed during arousal)? And XyXy analyses out the resulting consequences pretty well I reckon. Consequences that seem to be dominated by trouble.
That one about female mentality also I have noticed, this instability I've put down to perhaps an excess of female hormones. And speaking of hormones, there are many, not just testosterone and oestrogen. E.g. andosterone also plays a part in sexuality.  Opinion has it that testosterone also plays a big part in female sexuality.
I still think for most people (not just the limited area of the fetishes as is the case here),  the male hormone testosterone plays a major part in the sex-drive, the choice of sexual object being determined by personality factors pre-acquired usually during infancy and later. Hence the fetishes various, the one here of course being infantilism -- indicating the direct link to object choice.
We need to be careful in NOT allowing our own biasses and distortions to affect our judgement of the situation in the general population.
Daddy Fred.

"And it seems the only people who want to talk bout stuff like this are guys".
Isn't that exactly what you are?
Did you not see the irony in what you put?
Daddy Fred.