LightFolf

I moved to Warren County over the summer. Anybody else out this way?

Rutgers (Camden Campus) 2006

Count me in for NJL Central on the 20th.

Cool, see you at 7:30 I'll be in jeans and, at least when I come in, a big greenish overcoat. I'll wear my Sonic the Hedgehog shirt like I planned before. Also, my long hair is a good give-away

I'm free anytime. Whenever you'd like works for me.

Well, it depends on the specific folf, since the balance of wolf and fox factors is different in every case...I suppose I both yip and howl like both of my furred sides. My vocal part is bass, however.

XIV

I just double-checked what I'm doing BEFORE I say I'm good for a time and Saturday evening will be just fine for me. If we get snowed out, then I can plan on next Saturday. I'm pretty sure I have the same thing for work again that morning, but I'll double-check when I go in tomorrow.

Shoot, I just remembered I have work Saturday morning as well (I usually don't, so combined with my recent disorganization, I forgot about it). That would put me back in this area around 1pm. I'm clear for Saturday after that, or Sunday.

I'll wear my Sonic the Hedgehog shirt, which is brown. I have really long hair, too, and I'll probably be wearing a green overcoat as well. I may or may not be padded myself, but I keep it discrete when I go out

I'd assumed that Patel's was just a grocery store type place, but having never been in there, I thought maybe they have a little sandwich cafe or something. I've been to one of the Thai places down the road before, Aroma, and that was pretty good. My favorite place of all is gone, though--Sejal's. They had these great little pizzas and strange and wonderful flavors of magic ice cream--magic because it was healthier than normal ice cream. But, they closed down. I still miss that place. 11am on Saturday works for me, and the more the merrier. It'll be nice to start meeting the local community.

I would agree with a lot of what has been said so far--it depends on the person. But, for me, it's something I want to "get out of the way" early. While on the one hand, if you're in a good relationship, and committed to one another, and so on, then your partner might be more willing to accept it because of the feelings they have for you, I'm not a fan of that method. It still might not work out, and if it ends the relationship...well, that's quite a loss. I've had two relationships where I've told the person, within the first week, and they were both rather open to it. While those relationships did not last in the end, it wasn't about the diapers.

Wow, we're practically neighbors. I live in Whitehall Gardens. They're better about plowing our lots here--usually the parking lot here is better than Cortelyous Ln (which I take to work every day, but I got the day off for the snow). Anyway, they plowed a little too early, so we're not quite clear, but I've seen worse. Oh, wait, I think I hear them coming through again! Anyway... I haven't been to Stewarts or IHOP in a while, although I've also never been to Patel's...I think my whim at the moment is toward IHOP, but I'm flexible. Saturday, Sunday, whenever I could even take a jaunt in the snow today! I don't know if I'd get far, though. I just added myself to the map last night, but by zipcode only. So, it sounds like there's somebody else nearby, too. Oh, and it's a little bit farther away, but there is the 5 Guys in the shopping center where rt 1 and rt 130 meet. I think I'm more inclined toward IHOP still, though

If I really had to, I could. I've had some stretches of time where I felt like I couldn't safely indulge, and so I didn't. I still thought about it, and if I had to for some reason give up diapers, I'd still think about it. I'm used to not having things or not being able to do things, so one more on the list wouldn't make much difference. On the other hand, I have no desire to get rid of my interest in diapers. While in some ways it might make a couple parts of my life a little less complicated, I also get a special kind of enjoyment out of the diapers, so losing the interest wouldn't really make any quantifiable improvement in my life--why "fix" it if it isn't broken?

I think I'm somewhere in-between. I'm accepting of my enjoyment of diapers, confident that it's fine and healthy and all that, but I don't know if I could say that I'm proud of it. To me, pride has something to do with proclaiming or celebrating something, or at least wanting to. I have gay pride, for example, but I'm not in-your-face about it, and I don't usually announce that during my first meeting with someone, unless it seems relevant. I choose to keep quiet about it sometimes because being open can cause problems in certain situations. But, it's something that people need to know about me if we're to be any more than acquaintances. I say all that to compare it to how I am about diapers. It's enough for me that a couple of non ABDL people in my life know, and that I know other ABDLs, even if only online. People don't need to know it about me for the most part. It's something fun in and of itself, but it's not something I feel the need to celebrate.