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@Bel George I am in the same position as you (at that time). I am together with my wife for more than 16 years, and told her about my love for diapers over 10 years ago. She didn’t like it, but it was no reason to leave me. Since a few months I started wearing diaper much more often, and she is fairly ok with that. I also have the wish for a little bit participation, but am already very happy with how things are at the moment. Mostly the freedom to wear. As an answer to your question, something simple as putting 1 or 2 large cups of water in front of me to drink, to make sure I use my diaper, would already be a small step. Is there any progress on your side? Best Rob

That sure is something to realize when moving towards bedwetting. Did you actively try to wet the bed again after three decades, or was it something that happened to you?

This morning, for the first time, I woke up in a wet diaper without remembering that I peed. For the past 5 months i have been wearing a diaper to bed (almost) every night, and make sure that I drink extra before going to sleep. This causes me to wake up one or more times every night to pee. Of course I do it in my diaper, and quickly fall asleep again. This morning I woke up early, and missed the urge to pee. When I felt my diaper it was wet. I have no memory of consciously peeing, and yet my diaper was wet. I fell asleep again and now my diaper seems even wetter, but to be honest I am not sure. For me this is the first time since I started sleeping in a diaper that this has happened to me. Everywhere on this forum I read that if you want to be a bedwetter, just start wearing diapers to bed. So that is what I did. I was sceptical that this ‘real bedwetting ‘ could actually happen to me, but now it did. Wow!

Really impressive! First that you were able to build this device, second that you described so well what it did to you. I can imagine it is both nice to see that your project worked so well but also scary what may be the implications on (semi) long term use. For a long time this story “The Trainer” intrigued me a lot, and now I just read that it is actually effective. Would be such a turn-on if my wife would do that to me, but that is not going to happen. That would mean that she agrees with my Diaper lifestyle. And will be the only moment I would consider using this device. Since it does really make you wet your pants oncontrollably. On the other hand, I think you can also use the same device to get your control back with the opposite settings. Maybe you can even let us know if this actually worked for your bedwetting re-training in a few weeks. Thanks for sharing, must have been quite a thrill to test this device.

At the start of a (possible) relationship, when you start dating, then there is that moment you are going to sleep together for the first time. How did you tell about your bedwetting, and what was the reaction? Was it a reason the dating ended? Or did it bring something beautiful?

Great! So nice that you have achieved this. Did this also affect your daytime continence? Or is it really just bedwetting while asleep?

And?? How did it go? Did you mess during the night, and have a nighttime-accident? Or was it too much to hold and was the urge too heavy? Another way to cause a night-time accident is Epsom salt. As with any laxative, be sure you hydrate enough. Good luck and enjoy?

For uncontrolled diarrhea style messing you could use Epsom salt. This will result in a messy diaper without any doubt. For me it takes about an hour to work, so when you are really tired, and take it just before sleeping, it might do the trick of messing in your sleep. Be sure you have the Epsom salt suitable for consumption, and to prevent dehydration, make sure you drink enough. Worked for me once! Good luck

I am also a huge fan of this setup. The idea of total loss of control is a great mind fuck.

Hi, I was wondering if anyone ever faked an accident. I mean did you ever wet yourself on purpose, but told your wife/gf/bf that it was an accident. Just to convince her/him you need to wear diapers?

I would suggest a dulcolax (or other laxative). Not the suppository but the slower working tablets. Depending on a full or empty stomach, and active or passive activities (sleep), it will have effect between 3-8 hours. One in the evening will certainly have some effect during the night. good luck

I use Tena Slip Maxi Large, I think they are the best. I believe Tena is not so common in the US, but here in Europe (Holland) it is one of the leading (and best) brands I've tried. If you have the chance you should try them! Rob

I'm also watching! And since England is not in, maybe you can support our Dutch team! Let's see what more they can do....

Hi I also use suppositories once in a while, but I also don't like the cramping the dulcolax gives you. For that I prefer the oral laxatives (also dulcolax) because then it will come out squishy and without any cramping. It's true it takes 6 hours or so but with a little time planning it's worth the wait. But can anyone tell me a product name for the glycerin suppositories so I can look for them? Is it really without cramping and effect within 1 our? And which ones are the best? Thx, Rob