To be dichotomous about this....On one end I have to agree with lang. I seem to remember a couple years ago, if my memory serves me correctly, someone with the name Goerge on here talking about traveling to Thailand to have some back alley "doctor" mutilate his excretory system so he would be permenantly incontinent. We also didn't hear from this person again..
Now if this is a legit post, you need to see an actual, board certified physician. I agree with Lovelylittle and to go more in depth you might actually be having an issue with low testosterone and high estrogen levels. This is, from what I understand from a renowned urologist specializing in the male tiddlebits, a fairly common issue.
Best of luck
[Edit] Here it is: http://www.dailydiap...showtopic=12496
Head on over to the Incon-Desires section to see more gems from Goerge such as"
"Will sitting on an exploding toilet make me incontinent?"