@Little Sherri thank you so much! We have been married since 2008. He used to put a pull up and pjs on me and cuddle and watch a movie but then he would get very handsy so I have just started wearing when he isn't around. He tells me that he doubts I can wear and not get turned on. I had no way of figuring out how to explain it and you did so wonderfully. I just don't get how he would think me having an emotional relationship would be ok. I feel its way more dangerous especially that im not as into sex as he is (given the chance he would do it multiple times a day every day).